Quoting Marlee*TTC*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting -BLT-:</b>" What does your husband think? He's been trying for ... [snip!] ... I don't think I will stress it too much until I know for sure. Even still I started taking my prenatals and am being cautious"
it sounds like you really want to keep it, especially after your ectopic loss.
to be honest, i dont think i would set my decision on mental health alone. a perfectly okay person can get severe PPD, and people with serious issues can overcome them for the child....or maybe its a hormone thing.
this happened to me, i was severely depressed and seeing a counselor and psychiatrist about to be put on mood stabilizers. i found out i was pregnant and stopped going, didnt take the meds. i was fine throughout pregnancy and well ive had a couple stints of mindsmurf since then but nothing to make me regret having logan, and certainly nothing to make our family less stable.
i dont recommend stop seeing help, i think if you are pregnant and keep it you should continue to be monitored, and have a good support system.
i think from what you are saying, it would do more harm to you to terminate than to keep, and having a baby may help you overcome some things.
idk i wish you the best of luck though!