20 weeks and confused about showing.

I'm 20 weeks pregnant with my second I'm about 145 and 5 foot 5 or 6.. I am a lot smaller this time than I was with my first as far as how much my belly sticks out but I weigh about the same.. but I'm kinda confused because since about 15 weeks one day my belly sticks out and is showing quite a bit and the next day I still don't even look pregnant. I thought with the second women are usually bigger? And does anyone else's belly do this? lol. When did you start looking pregnant all the time? It just looks like I have a fat pouch most of the time. lol
first pregnancy


second pregnancy 20 1/2 weeks

I was wayyyy smaller the second time around.

Quoting [α❤к]:" I was wayyyy smaller the second time around."

I don't mind because I got uncomfortably big with my first, but when did you actually start showing, and stay showing??

Quoting AbbieChrysler3312:" I don't mind because I got uncomfortably big with my first, but when did you actually start showing, and stay showing??"

Yeah with my first I gained 100 lbs.  

But I started actually showing at 24-25 weeks and it stayed from then on.

I had bloat around 13 weeks with my second that I thought was baby but it went away by two weeks later. I wasn't smaller than I was with my first because I didn't show at all with either at that point, still had a 4 pack with both (no pic with my first but there is one of me at 19 weeks 4 days with my second). Started showing at 28 weeks with my first and at 26 weeks with my second, and by showing I mean a slight rounding.

Quoting AbbieChrysler3312:" I'm 20 weeks pregnant with my second I'm about 145 and 5 foot 5 or 6.. I am a lot smaller this time than ... [snip!] ... all the time? It just looks like I have a fat pouch most of the time. lol first pregnancy second pregnancy 20 1/2 weeks "

This is my third pregnancy..i was biggest with my first,then second..and smallest now. And I can totally relate,With this pregnancy at first I would wake up have a little bump and the next day not look pregnant...and it repeated so on. But now The bump is there and goes no where lol. But i get extremely upset because when I tell people I'm almost 5 months or I'm 19 weeks They tell me I'm "sooooo tiny" I'm "extremely little" "need to gain weight" and I'm thinking...wtf!! The baby is measuring exactly like she should be so I don't worry too much!Guess it's just less baby weight I'll have to worry about after she comes lol. But don't worrry the belly will come all the sudden! I can tell your pregnant in your pictures!  

Every pregnancy is different! I didnt start showing till I was a good 6 months with my 1st

Quoting pretty.mama:" This is my third pregnancy..i was biggest with my first,then second..and smallest now. And I can totally ... [snip!] ... about after she comes lol. But don't worrry the belly will come all the sudden! I can tell your pregnant in your pictures!  "

Thats exactly what people say to me too its annoying but yeah less weight to loose in the end haha! I don't want to get huge with this pregnancy but I'd like to at least look pregnant lol.