Tantrums

My kid has started having them. When she wants something like my phone for example. And If I take it away or don't let her have it she throws a fit. Throws her self down and starts screaming.
I feel bad and useally just give her what she wants.
She is only 11 months old so she's still young and I hate to see her cry.

Should I just ignore it?

That's what I use to do. Ignore bratty tantrums but make sure she's not in danger of hurting herself. As she gets older, her types of tantrums will change. You'll know you should try to calm her down and pay attention and when not to. At this time, let her throw a tantrum. When she's done, talk to her. Let her know that we do not kick or scream when we don't get our way. She'll start to understand eventually but will probably throw tantrums anyway   toddler life.

<blockquote><b>Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:</b>" That's what I use to do. Ignore bratty tantrums but make sure she's not in danger of hurting herself. ... [snip!] ... when we don't get our way. She'll start to understand eventually but will probably throw tantrums anyway   toddler life."</blockquote>




Thanks  

dd is 12 months, and randomly doesthat. I still dont give her what she wants. Its only the begining to a bad habbit.

I just redirect her with something else and then she is fine.

Quoting May ♥:" My kid has started having them. When she wants something like my phone for example. And If I take it ... [snip!] ... give her what she wants. She is only 11 months old so she's still young and I hate to see her cry. Should I just ignore it?"

by giving in youre feeding her tantrums ignore her till shes done then give her attention

<blockquote><b>Quoting LEGENDARY JAS ♥:</b>" That's what I use to do. Ignore bratty tantrums but make sure she's not in danger of hurting herself. ... [snip!] ... when we don't get our way. She'll start to understand eventually but will probably throw tantrums anyway   toddler life."</blockquote>




What she said. My son was the same way.

My DS is 16 months and since he started throwing tantrums I have always let him cry a few minutes and then I pick him up. As soon as I pick him he calms down and then I tell him he can't have such n such because of whatever reason. Now he usually calms down within the few minutes and I make him come to me.