How long did you wait?
posted 6th Feb
How long did you wait to TTC after your procedure. We said we were going to start trying in May. I had my procedure 3 months ago and the drs have said I'm fine. I'm on antidepressents now but they said I could get off them in about a month. I am also seeing a therapist. Hen I got pg I had really bad panic attacks and anxiety. They think because my Lapband was too tight and I couldn't eat it threw my hormones off it has been fixed and I am eating normal again. So my question is how long did you wait?
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What kind of procedure?
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What procedure? A d&c?
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Yes a d and c
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I would wait at least six months for both your mind and body to completely heal. How far along were you when you had the abortion?
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5 weeks the dr said after everything that what they took out was smaller then it should have been so I might have miscarried anyways. May would be 7 months
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Wait until you have all the debt paid off?
I mean that's why you got the abortion in the first place right??
This is in AS, I can't give you my opinion.
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I was told to wait one cycle then I could safely try again. I miscarried in my second trimester.
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Yes debt was a big part of it. I'm not proud of what I did but its done. I do really want children but the panic attacks ad anxiety at the time sent me into a suicidal depression which is why they think my hormones were off my finance was terrified that I'd harm myself. I'm doing much better now but it really scared him and my best friend.
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<blockquote><b>Quoting Snoopy fan:</b>" Yes debt was a big part of it. I'm not proud of what I did but its done. I do really want children but ... [snip!] ... were off my finance was terrified that I'd harm myself. I'm doing much better now but it really scared him and my best friend."</blockquote>
The choice is up to you. However I would feel personally if it was me that if when I had my abortion in 2008 if the issues which made me choose to do that we're unresolved I would wait. Enjoy your pregnancy without stress.
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i got pregnant 2 month later but not on purpose and i was fine
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