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Quoting October Rust:" Thank you so much. I don't know if I'm a fool for doing this, but I did call him so I could apologize ... [snip!] ... for fear of another fight like today. Should I just stick this out and live a charade of a relationship until I finish school?"

Your just going to have to think what is best for YOU and your girls. Give it some time, dont just up and do something and regret it later... via as in when the baby gets here and your doing it all alone...and such.

Im not saying just stay, but see how he acts here in the next few days to weeks and think hard. Im here if you want to PM me. Hugs!

He didn't say or do anything when he came home. DD had a slight fever yesterday and I told him about it so he took care of her some when she woke up this morning.

I'm just not going to say anything more for now. Though I feel the topic of his son's mother, which was the root cause of our argument, still needs to be addressed. I support him seeing his son and if he needs to talk to her about his son that's fine, but I don't think she should be sending me false and threatening messages/calls or smurf talking me to him trying to start drama. I think he should tell her to keep my name out of her mouth in that context. Would that be too much to ask?

She claims they made a deal that me and my girls aren't going to be around when he sees his son. That doesn't bother me too much if that's what he wants, but he knows I don't want her in our house and I'm afraid he would bring her around while I'm at school just to try and upset me. He's been known to passive aggressively try to keep upsetting me after fights and serious as these...

Quoting October Rust:" He didn't say or do anything when he came home. DD had a slight fever yesterday and I told him about ... [snip!] ... just to try and upset me. He's been known to passive aggressively try to keep upsetting me after fights and serious as these..."

The mother shouldn't be in your home. As for him seeing his son and her being there... I think it would be different if it was a Mcdonalds or such , ok. But, in your home. That is just disrespect.
The conversation will come. Just let things calm down a bit first. That is what I would do.

Quoting That Elise Girl ™:" The mother shouldn't be in your home. As for him seeing his son and her being there... I think it would ... [snip!] ... home. That is just disrespect. The conversation will come. Just let things calm down a bit first. That is what I would do."

I will. I'm going to chnage my phone number today too. The only reason she had it is because he and I have been sharing a phone, but he said he's going to get his own now.

Quoting October Rust:" I will. I'm going to chnage my phone number today too. The only reason she had it is because he and I have been sharing a phone, but he said he's going to get his own now."

Sounds like a good idea.   I'm here anytime if you want to talk!

Quoting That Elise Girl ™:" Sounds like a good idea.   I'm here anytime if you want to talk! "

thank you very much, that means a lot  

Quoting October Rust:" thank you very much, that means a lot  "

Anytime! I know what it feels like to really not have anyone to talk too.