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Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" I'm sorry dear   how scary. Can you stay with her?"

No. she's got 2 kids of her own and there wouldn't be room for me and both my girls. Plus SO has a key to the house I'm afraid if I'm not at home when he gets home he'll try to lock me out, throw my stuff out, etc.

Quoting October Rust:" No. she's got 2 kids of her own and there wouldn't be room for me and both my girls. Plus SO has a key ... [snip!] ... SO has a key to the house I'm afraid if I'm not at home when he gets home he'll try to lock me out, throw my stuff out, etc."

Call the landlord and tell him your story and see if he'll come and change the locks

Quoting norah's.momma✿:" Call the landlord and tell him your story and see if he'll come and change the locks"

it's 7pm and the office closes at 5. could I get that done this late?

Quoting October Rust:" it's 7pm and the office closes at 5. could I get that done this late?"

Well, it's an emergency, I don't see why not. Do you have a cellphone number or anything you could reach him at?

Quoting norah's.momma✿:" Well, it's an emergency, I don't see why not. Do you have a cellphone number or anything you could reach him at?"

No. I only have the office number.
I'm feeling so many flutters in my stomach right now...I hope I don't stress myself into miscarrying  

I'm sorry   I just know he may hurt you badly if you stay   I don't want that to happen.

Quoting October Rust:" No. I only have the office number. I'm feeling so many flutters in my stomach right now...I hope I don't stress myself into miscarrying  "

That really sucks   I hope you figure something out. If you stay there, keep a phone handy for 911 in case he tries to get violent. And try to calm down  

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" I'm sorry   I just know he may hurt you badly if you stay   I don't want that to happen."

I don't either. I threatened to scream after he tried to hit me (the walls/floors are kinda thin here so we can hear the neighbors pretty well and vice versa) he backed off after that. I told my grandma I was going to call her tomorrow morning so she would know the girls and I are still okay.
If it comes down to it, I'm sure he would leave. He has his mom's and dad's/step mom's that he could go to.

Quoting norah's.momma✿:" That really sucks   I hope you figure something out. If you stay there, keep a phone handy for 911 in case he tries to get violent. And try to calm down  "

I'm keeping the phone glued to my side for sure! I don't even know if I'll be able to sleep tonight. I'll try, but I'm thinking of setting an alarm so I can be awake before he gets home (he works from 5:30pm to 5:45am and sometimes he'll stay until 7am)

Quoting October Rust:" I'm keeping the phone glued to my side for sure! I don't even know if I'll be able to sleep tonight. ... [snip!] ... of setting an alarm so I can be awake before he gets home (he works from 5:30pm to 5:45am and sometimes he'll stay until 7am)"

Keep us updated please.

Please be careful. Do not hesitate to PM me. Do not hesitate to call 911. Please let us know in the morning you and the girls are okay.

I will you guys. I'm going to try and get some good sleep so I can wake up early tomorrow. I just hope I can get through this all okay. I have an exam on friday and I'm really stressing with school, cuz like I said, I'm trying to get my financial aid back and I need to kick ass this semester so I'll have it back this summer

Quoting October Rust:" I will you guys. I'm going to try and get some good sleep so I can wake up early tomorrow. I just hope ... [snip!] ... cuz like I said, I'm trying to get my financial aid back and I need to kick ass this semester so I'll have it back this summer"

Stay focused, doing school is probably the most best thing for you to stay focused on as well! You are not unfit if you are in school and trying to make something out of your life. Hang in there and keep the phone nearby. Breathe and pray in your head, if you pray. You will get through this. Stay strong for those babies!  

Quoting That Elise Girl ™:" Stay focused, doing school is probably the most best thing for you to stay focused on as well! You ... [snip!] ... keep the phone nearby. Breathe and pray in your head, if you pray. You will get through this. Stay strong for those babies!  "

Thank you so much.

I don't know if I'm a fool for doing this, but I did call him so I could apologize for doing or saying anything that might have upset him when we were arguing. I asked him if he really trash talked me to his son's mom and say that he wants to leave me and he said it wasn't true. I asked him why he would believe her saying I said smurf then and his response was 'I think she's a liar just as much as you so I don't know'.

I feel better for being big enough to apologize, but part of me is not convinced or reassured after talking to him. He said he was sorry too and that he loved me, but I still feel so pessimistic about all of this. I'm scared to bring anything up with him again for fear of another fight like today. Should I just stick this out and live a charade of a relationship until I finish school?

Quoting October Rust:" Thank you so much. I don't know if I'm a fool for doing this, but I did call him so I could apologize ... [snip!] ... for fear of another fight like today. Should I just stick this out and live a charade of a relationship until I finish school?"

You deserve better than some smurf who tried to hit you while you are pregnant.  

And he still thinks you're lying. You shouldn't have apologized to him. He's the bad one, not you. Just try to remember that as I'm sure he'll try to turn it around on you.