turns out i was pregnant all along ! decided to just go to the clinic to get the free pregnancy test , on Jan 28th i found out i was pregnant! Then i got a referral from there to an OBGYN office; my appt was Feb 5th ( yesterday) so i went there not expecting too much, cause i knew it all seemed to earlier i had sex on Jan 14th and thats where i thought if i was pregnant , when it happened so i didn't know how the pregnancy test was positive so i get there & there they did another pregnancy test ( positive ) took blood & my weight , blood pressure and all that then had me fill out so many papers , then finally did a papsmear ..... THEN the dr. tells me i'm 6 weeks pregnant! I am so shocked because i didn't expect to be already this far along. So since i'm only 17 years old , they let me speak to a counselor who talked to me about my options as far as abortion , adoption or me just keeping it ..... I don't know what to think or do; i'm in such denial. I try to act like it's not really real but i know i have to come to the reality that i am really pregnant and i have the biggest desicion of my life to make......only at 17! And not only am i pregnant .... i'm 6 weeks ... :'( my mind is EVERYWHERE !!
Well just claim down and think about what you would like to do. I was only 15 when i found out i was pregnant. I kept my baby. Its tough sometimes but if you set your mind to it you can do anything. But i wish you luck on anything you do!
I went through that, after being told I would never have kids. So it had a lot more weight as far as should I keep the miracle baby in case I couldn't in the future. I know speaking to my parents helped a lot though. Do you have the type of relationship where you think you could talk to them?
Just write out a list of pros and cons for every decision. I got pregnant at 16 and had him at 17. I am now 24, married, pregnant with #4, *almost* finished with college and in a good spot in my life. It can be done. Lost of women, including myself, have done it. You can PM me if you'd like.