Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" Good to know. Seems like you can never find one when you need them lol."know the feeling before I was a mod, lol
Quoting Twenties24:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BαƚMαɳ:</b>" Then get an abortion. It's ... [snip!] ... you could do at this point."</blockquote> The thing is I don't believe in it. At this point, I actually want to ctt."
Quoting Twenties24:" The thing is I don't know what to tell everyone I know. My family would tell me how wrong I am for not ... [snip!] ... abortion if I know I can't commit to being sober. My boyfriend's got a family of his own. And idk how my friends would react."
Quoting Twenties24:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" What is ctt? It would be better for ... [snip!] ... Carry to term I'm prolife even in the case of rape idk how it's best for either I can't help but think it is what it is"You dont have to tell anyone you are pregnant. If you cannot stay healthy and clean during your pregnancy then you really should consider abortion. The possible defects and long term health issues the child could have are not pretty. Your only choice would be to adopt or the child would most likely be taken by CPS if you continue to heavily use drugs through your pregnancy. The pure hell of withdrawl once the child is born is heartbreaking. Thats no way to start a life. You either need to go into rehab and get yourself clean if for nothing else than the health of the child you are carrying. If you cant do that then why should the child suffer most likely suffer their entire life.
Quoting Twenties24:" What if I can't do either?"If you can't stop drinking, then you need to terminate your pregnancy. FAS baby's have a very hard time at life.
Quoting Twenties24:" What if I can't do either?"the you need to be prepared for your child to have a life of problems and be taken away from you.
Quoting Twenties24:" What if I can't do either?"