We have already agreed on the first name, but im not quite sure which middle name im totally in love with.

Im not asking if you like the name, or the middle name, but asking which one sounds better.

Everyone has their own opinion on a name.

Also my sons name is Rilan Kole

If your other sons name is rilan, then i think riley sounds too close to it. jmo

I lovvve Soren James but thats prolly b/c James is SO's middle name and that would have been the middle name if we were having a boy I even considered having James be Lorelai's middle name. Soren Riley also sounds close to Rilan

I was gonna say the same thing about the Rilan/Riley thing.

LOVE Soren though!!! Soren James is perfect!

I prefer James over Riley but no b/c your other kid is Rilan. Lol who cares if one middle name is close to another siblings first name. That just ridiculous to me.

I just think James flows better.