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My husband and i have been married for 4 years. The past 2 years have been kind of up and down. Lately I've felt like there was no connection between us. I don't feel any attraction towards him and I just not sure if I care to change that. We've both had baby fever, but my situation has made TTC quite difficult and we gave up over a month ago. We haven't had sex in over a week and I have no desire to have sex.

I wake up this morning and look at my to do list I made for myself for my day off from work today, and he added on the bottom 'your husband' WTH really, that doesn't turn me on, it actually really irritates me.

Idk what the heck is wrong with me, it seems like ever since I had my son I've had no libido and everything about my husband irritates me. I just don't know what to smurfing do.

I was the same way for a couple months like 3m pp - 5m pp I didn't want to be around him and everything he did just pissed me off.. I still have it a little but not nearly as much.. and my sex drive is slowly coming back (im 6m pp now) but no where near what it was before I had the girls

I'm not TTC right now but I am the same way. I don't have the urge anymore to have sex or be intimate with him what so ever. I don't know why..

Quoting Elovetta (Aura&Luna):" I was the same way for a couple months like 3m pp - 5m pp I didn't want to be around him and everything ... [snip!] ... not nearly as much.. and my sex drive is slowly coming back (im 6m pp now) but no where near what it was before I had the girls"

well at least your getting your sex drive back soon. I had my son 2.5 years ago and I feel like I could just live without it.

Quoting Trisha [BMM]:" My husband and i have been married for 4 years. The past 2 years have been kind of up and down. Lately ... [snip!] ... ever since I had my son I've had no libido and everything about my husband irritates me. I just don't know what to smurfing do."

Same here, except im also pregnant which increases my dislike for sex. But sex just feels like work now. I know everything about dh's body, i know everything he can do, its just not fun anymore. And him pushing for it instead of letting me initiate it (which i never do) makes me more turned off. But every couple goes through this, or most. Before you rekindle your sex life, your friendship needs to be fixed. Thats what im focusing on.

I have no sex drive what so ever and I feel annoyed when SO pushes for sex too. I'm only 4 months PP but I feel like it will never come back and faking the funk is so mentally and physically exhausting.