Quoting Trisha [BMM]:" My husband and i have been married for 4 years. The past 2 years have been kind of up and down. Lately ... [snip!] ... ever since I had my son I've had no libido and everything about my husband irritates me. I just don't know what to smurfing do."
Same here, except im also pregnant which increases my dislike for sex. But sex just feels like work now. I know everything about dh's body, i know everything he can do, its just not fun anymore. And him pushing for it instead of letting me initiate it (which i never do) makes me more turned off. But every couple goes through this, or most. Before you rekindle your sex life, your friendship needs to be fixed. Thats what im focusing on.