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As each day passes i am getting more an more depressed AF was here 1-4 (usually only 3-5 days) soo Hubby and i have had some mommy dady time non stop ( srry lol) adn this moring AF AGAIN WTF what gives i feel like i will never get a BFP   i am doing everything right the vitamins the healthy diet no caffine excercsing having sex srry ladies just needed to vent  

  Aw I'm sorry... it happens... The more you worry the longer the wait for a BFP will seem... Relax and enjoy the baby making! Remember, Sperm can live 3-5 days inside the female body under proper conditions.

I totally understand getting impatient but you've only been trying a few months and it takes a healthy, fertile couple an average of 6-12 months to conceive when actively trying. You're only 3 months in, try to relax and have fun.

Are you charting your ovulation?

Quoting MommaSav2:" I totally understand getting impatient but you've only been trying a few months and it takes a healthy, ... [snip!] ... months to conceive when actively trying. You're only 3 months in, try to relax and have fun. Are you charting your ovulation?"

Yea i am charting i have the clear blue test - and on my LH surge days i practiclly rape him lol - he understands how frustrated i am and is trying to be supportive but with our daughter it happened like overnight and i feel like it wont happen i know i need to be more positive but my GF who wasnt even trying got knocked up  

I feel ya Momma. they say don't think about it but easier said than done

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" I feel ya Momma. they say don't think about it but easier said than done"

wayyy easier said then done lol

Quoting MommaSav2:" I totally understand getting impatient but you've only been trying a few months and it takes a healthy, ... [snip!] ... months to conceive when actively trying. You're only 3 months in, try to relax and have fun. Are you charting your ovulation?"

This! I wouldn't even do any of the charting or anything for at least the first 6 months. That stuff just makes you obsessive.   Enjoy not having to worry about birth control, etc. There's only about a 20% for a healthy women to get pregnant each month. Most healthy couples take up to a year. If you're still not having luck by the end of the year, you can talk to your dr about it and get your hormone levels checked and go from there.

Just have fun and lots of sex!! If you know how your cycles run just make sure to have LOTS of sex around your ovulation times but otherwise try not to stress and just enjoy each other. The added pressure is not helpful for trying to conceive.

I know it hard hun, but you're still pretty early into trying. I'm at the point where I feel like my body just hates me and I get extreme depression when AF shows. It's good that you are doing everything right, but I've come to the conclusion that there is no right way to end up pregnant. I've pretty much watched everyone in all of the different group I've been on in here get pregnant on their first try to those that haven't gotten pregnant until at least a year of trying. Everyone will tell you to not stress and just have fun, but it's really not that easy. But keep in mind that it does take most women 6-12 months of trying (That's the normal time period) I'm just trying to give you fair warning that some women on her will try and probably jump you for this post because you're kind of complaining after only 3 months and not going to lie I would normally be one of those people, but AF showed this morning and honestly I'm just to down about it to jump anyone right now. I hope you get your BFP soon.

i personally don't think it's right to jump anyone over being upset that they are not pregnant, whether they have been trying 1 month, 3 months or 10 years. When you want something as bad as a baby I think everyone has a right to be upset about not being pregnant. It's not a competition to see who has been TTC longest and has more right to complain.I mean not going to lie I have thought those things but I would never say anything. That's just stupid. TTC can be an emotinal road. I am bitter as hell and get super jealous when I see others pregnant without trying but I either keep my mouth shut or only say nice things no matter how much it kills me to do so.

Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" i personally don't think it's right to jump anyone over being upset that they are not pregnant, whether ... [snip!] ... others pregnant without trying but I either keep my mouth shut or only say nice things no matter how much it kills me to do so."

I don't think anyone was jumping all over her. Tops this is her 3rd cycle trying. All i think everyone was saying is basically pace herself. If it *does* get complicated, she's going to be all worn out and stressed. Plus her body is, as of right now, working the way it's suppose to. I tried for 6 years the first time and then lost that baby at 23 weeks. After that though, it has taken between 0 and 6 months to get pregnant on my own.

I am just speaking from my own personal experience. I think (IMHO) that she's getting too worked up about something that isn't even a failure yet.

Quoting Summerfrost:" I don't think anyone was jumping all over her. Tops this is her 3rd cycle trying. All i think everyone ... [snip!] ... my own personal experience. I think (IMHO) that she's getting too worked up about something that isn't even a failure yet. "

I wasn't referring to anyone on here jumping on op I meant kinda in general cause someone above me said this:

" I'm just trying to give you fair warning that some women on her will try and probably jump you for this post because you're kind of complaining after only 3 months and not going to lie I would normally be one of those people"

Sorry I guess I should have quoted. i just think it's ridiculous for someone to "jump on" someone else cause they've only been trying for so many months. I mean I was upset after the first month cause I just expected it to happen since it was my second baby. yea I had only been trying one month but I had been wanting it for almost two years. Had things been better in our lives 2 years ago we probably would have been trying since then if not already had two kiddos.
I do Know how frustrating it can be to see people upset about not being pregnant after only 2 months though. I just know it's not right to take your frustration out on others

I'm sorry if what I said came off wrong and that's why I said I wasn't jumping her and I agree that it isn't right but that some women on here will do it and that I've been guilty of it in the past. I was really just warning because lets face it we're all women on here and the struggles of ttc is emotional and hormonal for all of us and we sometimes do and say things that we don't really mean to, but in the moment we just end up taking it out on someone because well let's face it, it's easy to go off on someone we don't really know. I just wanted her to be fair warned that posts like this generally tend to end up with someone jumping on the OP for what most consider complaining after what most consider a short period of time ttc.