Quoting Kairi's Mama!:" Thank You. I'm so sorry for your loss as well. I lost my daughter May 29th of last year. She was born ... [snip!] ... SIDS. It hit us hard because we never expected it. She was 4 months & 5 days old. I've never heard of hyrdops before...?"
Hydrops is extra fluid in places it should not be. Ryan had it around his lungs and caused his lungs to be developed only at 21 weeks. He was born at 30 weeks. Even despite his odds I NEVER thought he wouldn't make it through. Losing a child is never expected and should never happen. It is the worst pain in the world. There are no words for the loss of a child.