Seriously?!!?!

I want to stab him in the face.

All these boys overly attached to their game systems?

Our son was transported two hours away to the closest NICU. I had him on the first and he was transferred on the third. We got out here as soon as we could and slept in a hotel that first night. I about flew off the handle when he brought his bag in to the room and began hooking up the ps3.

Really. Our son is sick and this was an essential item you needed to pack? You can't leave it the smurf at home? Excuse of I want to watch Netflix. I'm sure you can turn on the damn tv to anything and it will be fine. I'm rushing around trying to get everything I might need in a rush and then wait on you to grab that? You ant survive?

And if that wasn't bad enough he had left last night and came back today. All was fine. Then he got his bag from the car and brought the damn ps3 into the room they set us up with at the hospital and is currently trying to set it up. I'm about to smurfing go kick him out. Who the hell does that?!

We have fought over things regarding the system. To the point one ended up broken. It got smashed up. And of course then he went out and spent money that could have gone to bills or baby items on getting a new one plus his getting fixed. And that was NOTHING compared to pulling this

I swear to god.

Hell he wasn't there trough the night before I was induced. He wasn't there all day when everyone kept saying hey I'm on my way to having your child get up here. He kept saying he was on his way then giving excuses. Apparently paying a tv bill and running friends around was more important. He missed his son being born. He wasn't even at the hospital at all. I could have dealt with not in the ro but not like he even tried. And he was honestly not ever around more than an hour or two.

And now this.

I'm sorry. You can live without the smurfing thing for a minute.

WTF? I would not put up with that. I'd tell him to take it to the house, and stay there with it if he must.

Did you bring your laptop with you?

Maybe you should reevaluate your relationship with him. If he can't let go of the little things for something so important that would really make me look at even if I wanted to continue a relationship with him.

I love video games as much as the next person, but that's seriously a smurfed up move.

Kid comes first...ALWAYS...

Sorry you're going through that....completely wack.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Klaus:</b>" WTF? I would not put up with that. I'd tell him to take it to the house, and stay there with it if he must. "</blockquote>




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Oh hell no..I'd take away his debit cards and checks then donate that smurf to the children's ward at the hospital. Unsmurfingbelievable

Quoting shelbylynn [32 WEEKS!]:" Did you bring your laptop with you?"

That EXACTLY what I was going to say.

I did not bring a laptop. I brought my phone which has s to have Internet and a second phone I went out and bought in case I needed it. I grabbed clothes and money and such.

He tried to get me to bring it and I was mad over the idea of that. Even before it was an emergency situation. Just being admitted I was like why? And ugh. I'm so pissed.

Quoting Lady GooGoo™:" That EXACTLY what I was going to say."

The point I was going to make was they both brought some form of entertainment. You can't be at the hospital 24/7 (at least where I am) and if you're sitting on a hotel all night, I don't see a big deal in bringing a ps3.... She's on BG, isn't she?

Quoting BrandiReed:" I did not bring a laptop. I brought my phone which has s to have Internet and a second phone I went out ... [snip!] ... over the idea of that. Even before it was an emergency situation. Just being admitted I was like why? And ugh. I'm so pissed."

I understand you're mad and stressed....... but is this REALLY worth being even more stressed than you need to be??

I waited until our son was more or less stable and doing better before I did anything. I hadn't talked to anyone got online checked anything. It wasn't important. Today I got on letting people know what was going on. Taking some time to myself for little things. But I didn't come unhooking things in a hospital room and having a system in here and such. I refused to even have a tv on at all until I had to as I have to watch some videos as part of my discharge process. He doesn't want to go see his son over the system. He wants to stay down here or back home and do this. Then finally come out here but must bring t.

Quoting BrandiReed:" I waited until our son was more or less stable and doing better before I did anything. I hadn't talked ... [snip!] ... see his son over the system. He wants to stay down here or back home and do this. Then finally come out here but must bring t."

That would upset me if it was being hooked up in a hospital room, but you were also just mad at the fact that he brought it with him and pulled it out of his bag in the hotel room...... I'm not trying to be mean at all either

Quoting shelbylynn [32 WEEKS!]:" I understand you're mad and stressed....... but is this REALLY worth being even more stressed than you need to be??"

Yeah, sorry OP but I gotta agree woth Shelby on this one.
I understand your frustrations. A lot of what he has done is smurfed up, I can give you that. BUT there's only so much TV you can watch when your child is laying in a hospital bed/crib/isolette, there are only so many things to talk about. I think it would be best to leave these issues at the door of the hospital for the time being. Address them when your life isn't currently going through a chaotic and emotional upheaval and you can focus more clearly on the issues in your relationship. You've got enough on your plate right now with what baby is going through, and you're in a really delicate state emotionally right now.

I'm mad at both really. He brings it everywhere. All the time. No matter where. How long. All the time. But right now. This. We didn't know what was going on the first night. Things were looking horrific. And he took the time to pack nothing else but the playstation.