re: Seriously?!!?!

Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" Damn, this smurf is too long to ... [snip!] ... of a smurf move. "</blockquote> Truth about her perfect marriage is all out now anyways lol. She did it to herself."

Lmao.  

Seriously do NOT be attempting to bring down other people's marriages when you your self clearly say you DON'T want to be married to your extremely abusive husband. And the only reason you are with him is because he puts a gun to his head and you are afraid he will someday turn it on you. In all seriousness, karma aside, if you are unhappy in your marriage (I would be too if I went through that) then LEAVE. because it seems like you are in a very dangerous situation. I just officially read ALL of those posts. And truly am sorry that you are unhappy and feel forced to stay married. I really do hope things get better for you. :/ no sarcasm there. I actually feel bad for your situation after reading those.

Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" I guess we all see it differently but smurf, my husband works smurfing hard to bring in the money he does ... [snip!] ... I'm sure she would mind if the tables were reversed and her BD was the one throwing a fit because (CLEARLY) she was in BG. "

Well..its different for every situation I guess, but SO only works 30-32 hours a week and has plenty of time to spend with us that he doesn't. We can't afford anything we want and what I want most is to spend time with him and for him to spend time with my LO. He was worse but he could still do better. Sometimes spending a day in front of a playstation is fine but not every single day off, staying up until 3-4am and sleeping away the time he could be spending with his family. I don't know if her situation will be different, I was just saying there is a point gaming becomes more of an addiction than a hobby, and becomes too much. Sometimes playing a game is by all means fine, but not every single hour you are not working or sleeping.

Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" Damn, this smurf is too long to ... [snip!] ... of a smurf move. "</blockquote> Truth about her perfect marriage is all out now anyways lol. She did it to herself."

lol thats GOLD

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" Well..its different for every situation I guess, but SO only works 30-32 hours a week and has plenty ... [snip!] ... and becomes too much. Sometimes playing a game is by all means fine, but not every single hour you are not working or sleeping."</blockquote>



Idk. I guess it is different with everybody and I can't relate because although my husband will play 24/7 as soon as I tell him I want to go out or spend time he'll drop whatever he's doing to please me.

To me is just like, OP is telling her side of the story and there are two sides to every story. Then again she complains about how he never does this and never does that, how he's always in the PS3 but she still says he's good to her. Well, which one is it?

I guess though, from the bottom of my heart I just hope everything works out for OP.

Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:" I just want to say, I think it's hilarious when random people come into a thread to create more drama. ... [snip!] ... know I will be spending the week in France, with the love of my life, and WITHOUT a video game console. Have a great night.  "

TL;DR
I couldn't get past "random people".
Clearly you haven't even bothered to read this thread through so you are not even worthy of a well thought out response.

Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" <blockquote><b>Quoting ******j*******:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℳizz ... [snip!] ... isn't as perfect as you led on. Looking at this account's threads. Oh boy. The truth loves to come out in miraculous ways!!"

Are you smurfing kidding me? As if it's any of your business, my friend Jenni was living in CALIFORNIA (if you bothered looking at her account), and she moved in with us to get away from her abusive spouse. She even SAID she was going to stay with a friend in her post from April. You're seriously pathetic. She was logged into babygaga on our computer to update her profile and read through the forums, and I used the computer after her. I really don't care about your opinion, but the fact that you would make abuse into a joke is truly deplorable. I'm helping my best friend out. Get over yourself, my husband has never abused me, physically, emotionally, or otherwise. Seriously, pathetic.

Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" Seriously do NOT be attempting to bring down other people's marriages when you your self clearly say ... [snip!] ... I really do hope things get better for you. :/ no sarcasm there. I actually feel bad for your situation after reading those."

You can say whatever you want, but those are not my posts. My friend Jenni left her husband and is making a better life for herself. Those posts are literally irrelevant to me (other than the fact that she mentions coming to stay with me). If you want to give your sympathies to anyone, give them to her. She's been through hell and she's an incredibly strong person.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:</b>" Are you smurfing kidding me? As if it's any of your business, my friend Jenni was living in CALIFORNIA ... [snip!] ... best friend out. Get over yourself, my husband has never abused me, physically, emotionally, or otherwise. Seriously, pathetic."</blockquote>



Lmfao. For someone who doesn't care you sure as hell are doing a lot of explaining.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:</b>" Are you smurfing kidding me? As if it's any ... [snip!] ... pathetic."</blockquote> Lmfao. For someone who doesn't care you sure as hell are doing a lot of explaining.  "</blockquote>





I know right??

Lol I never made abuse into a joke. I made the irony of the karma into a joke. As someone who has been abused before I'd never make THAT into a joke.

Mrs. Sherwood,
I clearly said "karma aside..." And went on to show concern. Lol deny it all you want. I did the same with my ex trying to make everything seem "perfect". I'm sorry you gotta go through that hun but I'd stop being rude to everyone now because there is NO recovering from you totally giving your hidden life away. You logged on to that account and forgot to log back out. It is what it is.

Funny, because even when I was abused I never was a bitch to other happy couples trying to make their lives worse than my own. I guess everyone reacts differently.

Highly doubt your best friend has needed help since 2009 or 2010 or whenever it was. Obviously a "secret" account would not include your actual location. You were caught. Just own up to it or let it be. Because continuously being rude makes the situation even more sad.

Lol and I just love how now all of a sudden her secret account's name changes to jenni!! Gosh just stop. You're making it so much more obvious.

And the about me is all of a sudden updated from "im not online often" to:
"My name's Jenni and I'm the proud mommy of a perfect little girl, Anna. My ex-husband and I were living in California, but things ended badly. I'm now staying in Arizona with my beautiful daughter and attending school at Maricopa CC. I love horseback riding, swimming and watching my little girl grow up I'm hoping to move back to California soon, I miss the beach! If you want to know anything else about me, let me know "

Hmmm what a coincidence.
Seriously tho, Gosh how obvious can you be lmao.

Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:" Are you smurfing kidding me? As if it's any of your business, my friend Jenni was living in CALIFORNIA ... [snip!] ... best friend out. Get over yourself, my husband has never abused me, physically, emotionally, or otherwise. Seriously, pathetic."

So she's been living with you for almost two years and you still can't figure out how to make sure YOU are logged on and not her?

Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:</b>" Are you smurfing kidding me? As if it's any ... [snip!] ... pathetic."</blockquote> Lmfao. For someone who doesn't care you sure as hell are doing a lot of explaining.  "

I was thinking the same thing. LOL

Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:</b>" Are you smurfing kidding me? As if it's any ... [snip!] ... pathetic."</blockquote> Lmfao. For someone who doesn't care you sure as hell are doing a lot of explaining.  "

She's my best friend. Did you really expect me to just sit here and let you belittle and insult her? And she hasn't been living with me for two years, where the hell did I say that? She has a child with her ex, how exactly would she do that if she had been living with us? She just moved in with us until she can get on her feet, and hadn't been on BG for a while. I told her that it would be a good site for support, way to be a good example ladies.
And by the way, I specifically said that she was online updating her profile, so why is her changing her name so suspicious? She uses our computer, big deal. I seriously can't believe you people. She was ABUSED and all you can think about is "OMG someone on babygaga logged into the wrong account". Get over yourselves and stop bringing down someone else for your own amusement. She's been through enough, move the smurf on.

Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:" She's my best friend. Did you really expect me to just sit here and let you belittle and insult her? ... [snip!] ... Get over yourselves and stop bringing down someone else for your own amusement. She's been through enough, move the smurf on."

1. When you posted on your "friend's" account, the name was just J and there was no profile info

2. You said she said she was moving in with a friend in her post made back in April. That post was made April 2011.

3. You think the "oh I didn't know my friend was logged in" excuse hasn't been used here before? That whole explanation is just...ridiculous and text book.

Enjoy that little delusion of yours, darling.