re: Seriously?!!?!

Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" Maybe with this specific example, but I'm sure ... [snip!] ... playing video games "all day". Since when does a man playing on his free day or on his time off, spare time make it "all day"?"

I feel like it becomes a problem when the man only spends his free time and days off playing video games rather than spending time with his family.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" Maybe with this specific example, but I'm sure by the way she explained this that he is on that system ... [snip!] ... after his kid is home. It's possible it will but unlikely based on what I've seen with people so obsessed with playing games."</blockquote>



Well it couldn't have bothered her this much before since in August she posted about buying him 6 video games all at once with plans to get him more plus a GameStop or PS gift card. And in that very post she talks as if it wasn't the first time. Nothing wrong with that of course, but If his gaming habit was as bad as you are insinuating it may be, and that was what angered her so badly, I don't think she would contribute to her hatred THAT MUCH. I am sure that something happened between then and now that poses as an underlying issue. Sometimes when problems start happening in relationships, the things that you used to be ok with start pissing you off. And I'm just assuming of course, since I don't know OP personally, that this may be the case.

Now as for OP there is nothing wrong with this. It's just a matter of recognizing the issues and sorting them out together as a couple. Her SO does care about them and she said that herself, so I definitely think there is hope. And as I have said before I really DO hope that things work out between them.

Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kaibutsu:</b>" Maybe with this specific example, but I'm sure ... [snip!] ... herself, so I definitely think there is hope. And as I have said before I really DO hope that things work out between them."

I hope so as well. Maybe its just bothering her more now because the hospital thing would probably hurt my feelings as well. Once SO started even paying a little attention to LO, his gaming didn't bother me nearly as bad. Hopefully its the same for her and things get better instead of worse.

Quoting Rabbit™:" I think you're just jealous that your husband wouldn't ever come stand in your defense on BG. It's really ... [snip!] ... at hand. Now scamper along back to your fantastical and perfect little bubble before I find myself a needle and pop it.  "

I just want to say, I think it's hilarious when random people come into a thread to create more drama. If any one of you bothered to actually read my original post that was directed at OP - I told her that she and her son deserved better. OP was CLEARLY not ok with her SO bringing a game console to the hotel while their child was in the NICU, and he even missed the birth of their child because of it. She also provided numerous examples of his lack of concern for her because he was too busy playing video games. I cannot for the life of me understand why anyone would stand up for this boy. If you think that it's ok for your own relationship, great. In my OPINION, that is not a healthy relationship with healthy priorities. I absolutely would not be ok with my husband missing the birth of our child because he was too busy playing video games or "paying bills", and I am certainly not the only person in this thread who holds the same belief. I addressed the OP, and Miss Jizz decided to address ME.
And by the way, I have never claimed to have a perfect relationship, but I do have a very good one - one in which my husband and I fall more in love every day. I am not ashamed of that, I will not apologize for it, and you cannot "pop my bubble" because there is nothing you could possibly say that would make me or my husband love each other any less. Sorry.
As I said before, if think it's appropriate to put video games before life events such as births, illnesses, etc, then great. But those are not healthy priorities. If you want to attack me for that, go ahead. I feel great knowing that I am my husbands number one priority, in any situation.
And just so you know - my husband is not going to make a profile on babygaga so he can argue with a bunch of women who think it's appropriate for their SO's to put video games before the needs of their spouse and their children. However he would like me to say this: Those of you jumping all over me for having high standards for my relationship need to realize that there are men out there who will make you their first priority, and be there for you day or night, unconditionally - regardless of their hobbies. There is nothing wrong with video games in moderation, but when they become more important than the health, happiness and well being of your family, they are no longer a hobby, they are an obsession.
Now ladies - I hope you all have a nice weekend with your families. For those of you who don't believe that I'm going to Paris - people travel the world every day. Maybe you don't travel, I don't really care. My husband and I travel frequently, and we have had plans to spend this week in Paris, celebrating Valentines Day, for months. So whether you believe it or not, I don't really care because I know I will be spending the week in France, with the love of my life, and WITHOUT a video game console. Have a great night.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:</b>" I just want to say, I think it's hilarious when random people come into a thread to create more drama. ... [snip!] ... know I will be spending the week in France, with the love of my life, and WITHOUT a video game console. Have a great night.  "</blockquote>




Lol here we go!!

Quoting Kaibutsu:" Yeah OP I would be pissed too...I know how bad it hurts to have me and my child ignored for the sake ... [snip!] ... were flipped and a mother on here were so obsessed with video gaming and had to have it 24/7...she would get ripped a new one."

Thank you! People are saying that "no one is being ignored"...well, clearly OP feels neglected or she wouldn't have posted the topic to begin with. He wasn't there for their child's birth, I doubt he's being an attentive husband/father while their child is in the NICU. And what exactly is OP doing while her SO is playing video games? Sitting there and watching him? He should be there FOR HER. Clearly she's struggling with this and he's putting his PS3 before her needs.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:</b>" I just want to say, I think it's hilarious when random people come into a thread to create more drama. ... [snip!] ... know I will be spending the week in France, with the love of my life, and WITHOUT a video game console. Have a great night.  "</blockquote>




Guess what. Myself and our children are my husband's first priority!! You lose. Oh ya and we play games too. Currently playing resident evil 6. Go pack for Paris. I'm sure Arizona is looking forward to the break from you.

Holy christ! I hope the OP unsuscribed to this bs thread.

If you are still reading through this OP I hope your baby is doing better! <33

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:</b>" I just want to say, I think it's hilarious ... [snip!] ... games too. Currently playing resident evil 6. Go pack for Paris. I'm sure Arizona is looking forward to the break from you."</blockquote>


Are you kidding? You are such a drama seeker. Did you even bother to read my last post, or was it to much of an 'essay' for you to follow along. By the way, I'm super offended about your statement that 'Arizona needs a break from me'. I mean seriously? I'm done arguing with you. OP deserves better. OP - I am so sorry for what you're going through and I really hope things get better. You deserve a man who is always there for you and your son. If your SO isn't willing to change - just know that there are men out there who will love and care for you and your son the way a real man should. Have a great weekend OP  

<blockquote><b>Quoting ******j*******:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... that there are men out there who will love and care for you and your son the way a real man should. Have a great weekend OP  "</blockquote>




Making multiple accounts now are we??

<blockquote><b>Quoting ******j*******:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... that there are men out there who will love and care for you and your son the way a real man should. Have a great weekend OP  "</blockquote>




Assuming you are posting as Mrs. Sherwood.... Considering you are answering what I wrote to her AS HER on this account. Looks like your husband isn't as perfect as you led on. Looking at this account's threads. Oh boy. The truth loves to come out in miraculous ways!!

Quoting Kaibutsu:" I feel like it becomes a problem when the man only spends his free time and days off playing video games rather than spending time with his family."

I guess we all see it differently but smurf, my husband works smurfing hard to bring in the money he does to out home. We don't struggle, we have whatever we want, whatever we need, even whatever we don't want and whatever we don't need. If my husband feels like he wants to spend on of his days off in front of the Playstation why shouldn't he be able. Plus, I'd rather him be there where I know where he is at and what he is doing.Rather than having him, off God knows where with God knows who doing God knows what.

I don't need my husband to be by myside 24/7 to know that he loves me. OP is over exaggerating. At the same time kind of being a hypocrit. I'm sure she would mind if the tables were reversed and her BD was the one throwing a fit because (CLEARLY) she was in BG.

Lmao still can't get over this irony.

Mrs. Sherwood and her perfect marriage!!

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And her fake account posting to me in case she deletes that one as well:
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Normally I am NOT this mean. I am such a nice person. But I am sorry mrs. Sherwood. Karma is apparently as much of a bitch as you have been to me.

Quoting Mrs. Sherwood:" I just want to say, I think it's hilarious when random people come into a thread to create more drama. ... [snip!] ... know I will be spending the week in France, with the love of my life, and WITHOUT a video game console. Have a great night.  "

Damn, this smurf is too long to read. Not to mention it starts with non~sense. The "random" people were mostly people that were here before you decided to come. Someone asked you a question about something that you commented. You went crazy and started stating that because her views were different than yours her relationship priorities were smurfed up.

That was one hell of a smurf move.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):</b>" Damn, this smurf is too long to read. Not to mention it starts with non~sense. The "random" people were ... [snip!] ... because her views were different than yours her relationship priorities were smurfed up. That was one hell of a smurf move. "</blockquote>




Truth about her perfect marriage is all out now anyways lol. She did it to herself.