re: You know what grinds my gears?

Quoting Mo-momma:" Oh, i think I may be remembering why I stayed off these forums in the past. Supportive community online turns out to be negative and sarcastic."

You're way too defensive. Your explanation was accepted, all you had to do was say "It's okay, we're cool" and it would be over.

Quoting Klaus:" You're way too defensive. Your explanation was accepted, all you had to do was say "It's okay, we're cool" and it would be over. "

oh.

its ok. you're cool.

Quoting Mo-momma:" oh. its ok. you're cool."

Oh that was so clever. You're good. You sure put me in my place. Bravo.

If I drive to TN I'm expecting you to take them for free.   Get over it.






 


Seriously though. I think it is rude. You are a professional, this isn't your hobby.

<blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims ... [snip!] ... I do it at home with no customers or money   I bartend part time at a club, once in a while I'll go on stage at the club... ;)"</blockquote>




Same  

Uh, no. Like you said they're coming out of the woodwork to ask for these free things. I guess some of these posters missed that. If its obvious they're just going to use me then hell no I wouldnt do it for free. But if its someone that I see on the regular that does things for me too or I want to give a gift to then yes.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... or money   I bartend part time at a club, once in a while I'll go on stage at the club... ;)"</blockquote> Same  "</blockquote>




U bartend?? Or dance at home for, $ free.99 Lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims ... [snip!] ... at the club... ;)"</blockquote> Same  "</blockquote> U bartend?? Or dance at home for, $ free.99 Lol"</blockquote>



Both lol.

Used to dance. And my family never request my services hshaha

I have the same problem, but I never know what to say... lol like my best friend just expects it, kind of makes me feel awkward.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... at home for, $ free.99 Lol"</blockquote> Both lol. Used to dance. And my family never request my services hshaha"</blockquote>




Lmao...


At deja, we had this energy drink, it was bright pink and called, "Sum Poosie"
My uncles used to ask me to get the drinks for them, they used to collect the bottles because they would have the girls on them lol

Even when I was up for entertainer of the year, my mom still had a heart attack going in... there was no stripping it was just pole and floor show, she said she saw my stage... I still doubt it haha

<blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims ... [snip!] ... attack going in... there was no stripping it was just pole and floor show, she said she saw my stage... I still doubt it haha"</blockquote>



Hahaha.

I was asked by brothers to hook them up with security work lol