Quoting Jennybananna:" Redirection is a constant thing. You might have to do it a thousand times before it works. When you smack ... [snip!] ... learn that what they touched was wrong they learn that touching in general is wrong. They stop exploring and can fall behind. "
Quoting CottonCandyKiller:" i love how you all keep saying i sprayed her in the face when i clearly said i don't "I said apparently because I never saw what the original comment was just what others have said.
Quoting CottonCandyKiller:" i don't do it with everything she grabs."Oh well then that makes it all better. NOT you shouldnt do it at all. She is only 8 months. You keep saying how she is such a baby to you and blah blah you wont even let her play on the floor yet you're ok with laying your hands on her. Small tap or not its just not right.
Quoting Jennybananna:" I said apparently because I never saw what the original comment was just what others have said. "i assure you it wasn't in the face and i said that in the original post. that if it hit her at all it was on the hand. i also said that i didn't think it hurt her because she didn't cry but on the off chance it could be damaging i stopped. and it had only happened a couple of times.
Quoting CottonCandyKiller:" i don't do it with everything she grabs."
Quoting shelbylynn [32 WEEKS!]:" What the smurf did I just read?"
Quoting κατι:" Stop doing it. You are harming her,nothing good will come from that. She will grow up afraid to touch anything in her house."ok. that's all you had to say. instead of telling me i'm a smurf mom. no 1st time mom is perfect. its all a learning experience.
Quoting CottonCandyKiller:" ok. that's all you had to say. instead of telling me i'm a smurf mom. no 1st time mom is perfect. its all a learning experience."Common sense says not to hit a baby not matter how "soft" it was
Quoting Mama Charli:" Why is drama from an old thread being brought into every damn thread this girl makes? "
Quoting Amor. ♥:" LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO omg that gif."
Quoting κατι:" I don't call it drama. We are ALL concerned about her baby and her living conditions."