Quoting ::Nikki:::" The simple fact that you are forced to search for validation from women you dont even know based on something ... [snip!] ... are unable to do better, which is clearly not so in your case. How dare he use his own insecurities to make you feel that way."
This!! Don't let anyone make you feel how you don't want to feel, best advice I've ever taken. You should be beautiful to him no matter what, I think you're pretty and I bet you have an awesome personality which automatically makes you even more beautiful and special. He would be sleeping on the couch for a month, no sex. Me personally, I would start dressing up to make myself feel better, let him see how many guys hit on you to see that if he can't make you feel how you deserve then someone else would gladly take his place. What an smurf! That right there would make me rethink things but that's me. I hope things get better for you mama. *Hugs*