re: Pregnant 17 year old girlfriend freaking out? Wants me to ha

In my opinion I think she is telling you that she doesn't want the baby because she don't want to get attached if she is pregnant to the baby just to end up losing it later because of the out come of her last pregnancy. Also depression is really bad and females can have bad mood swings. I would just hang in there it gets better over time, it sounds like you really love her. Just be there for her that's what she needs right now. Good luck.

Quoting Mother of amazing kids:" In my opinion I think she is telling you that she doesn't want the baby because she don't want to get ... [snip!] ... it gets better over time, it sounds like you really love her. Just be there for her that's what she needs right now. Good luck."

Thats what I was going to say, She has lost in one way or another two babies, I would imagine she is scared and feeling alone right now, if she is living with her grandparents she might not be able to talk to them about it all, I would try and talk to her properly face to face and reassure her that you WILL be there no matter what. I hope you get sorted OP

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashleywest:</b>" I have a feeling the pill didn't work because she didn't take it but i think if she didn't take it she ... [snip!] ... didn't miss any of them. But she has sent me pictures of 5 tests and a picture of her stomach thats covered in stretch marks"</blockquote>




Are you positive its "her" stomach? Anybody can go on the internet and get pictures of positive tests and pregnant bellys. Was her face in any of them? She sounds like a very immature attention loving little girl. It would be in your best interest to cut ties. If she's lieing about this who knows what else she is/could be lieing about. Good luck!