re: Pregnant 17 year old girlfriend freaking out? Wants me to ha

Wait.... your profile says that you are 30.....

But anyways... I think she needs to seek help. What type of implant does she have? I have a close friend that miscarried on implanon.

Ok so can you get pregnant whilst on the pill and taking it correctly..Yes.. hence the reason i have a little baby boy in my stomach right now. I took it every day at the same time and never missed one...so that is possible. As for the implant yes again you can get pregnant...BUT something needs to have gone wrong with it..which can happen easily. So she is either very unlucky or...as others have said lied one way or another. Stuff like this does happen, i had 4 miscarriages before this little one came along. Horrific and unlikely things do happen and they do take their toll on a woman tremendously. I don't know if she is telling the truth and if she is understand she had gone through some really bad times..But that's no excuse for the way she is treating you. If you have stood by her like the way you said you have then there is no excuse for the excessive abuse. (Note i say excessive because depression makes you say silly things and think irrationally) I would never condone breaking up with some one who is in this mess but if once you have seen your GP she is not pregnant i strongly suggest you think about it, not just for your sake but for her own as well. Best of luck!

Quoting Ashleywest:" I would think she is pregnant because the test pictures and shes never lied to me about anything as far ... [snip!] ... and is not taking medication just having councilling but i think they need to give her meds but they wont because of her age"

She may want the baby. and then the next minute she maynot want it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey ... [snip!] ... matter now, he has clarified that she was 16"</blockquote> I dont see why it even mattered in the first place."</blockquote>



He started off saying this isnt illegal, but obviously it was, so I pointed it out. Don't see what the big deal is.

(This was based off his op, where it appeared she was 15)

I dont really no where to start with getting her checked in to a hospital i know her mother had a lot of mental health issues and i heard it can be passed on and her mother tried killing herself on many occasions (this was before she was even born though) Will she be ok in a mental hospital if shes pregnant?

Shes not crazy or anything shes a smart girl and was preticted A's in her a levels until she dropped out. She has social anxiety and depression just sits in and crys most of the tiem says she feels weird all the time and worrys about every little thing in detail has paranoia and hates talking to anyone, shes told me she has thought about suicde beforre but she would never go through with it because she would feel too bad that people would blame themselfs and she was too scared because of wondering about what happens after, but she said shes scared that shes going to loose control and then she will commit suicide, i have no experience of this so don't really know what to say to her

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My ... [snip!] ... it was, so I pointed it out. Don't see what the big deal is. (This was based off his op, where it appeared she was 15)"</blockquote>




What was the point of pointing it out? Do you feel better now?

She has nexplanon and im not 30 not sure why it says that, i don't live in japan either but it says that too

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashleywest:</b>" I dont really no where to start with getting her checked in to a hospital i know her mother had a lot ... [snip!] ... going to loose control and then she will commit suicide, i have no experience of this so don't really know what to say to her"</blockquote>




Yes, she will be very well taken care of if she is pregnant. If she wants this baby she needs help. How can she take care of the baby if sheisnt fully capable of caring for herself. She needs to work on getting herself better for the child.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey ... [snip!] ... his op, where it appeared she was 15)"</blockquote> What was the point of pointing it out? Do you feel better now?"</blockquote>

Of course I do.

Not sure what your deal is.

Ive asked her is shes sure shes pregnant and she accused me of thinking shes lying so she says shes going to go on skype tonight and take the test infront of me and show me the result.. not sure how thats going to work lol

Quoting Ashleywest:" She has nexplanon and im not 30 not sure why it says that, i don't live in japan either but it says that too"

If she is pregnant she needs it to be taken out. Or else it will cause her to have another miscarriage. You need to tell her grandparents that she is having trouble and they will hlep you commit her into a mental hospital.

Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashleywest:</b>" I dont really no where to start with getting ... [snip!] ... care of the baby if sheisnt fully capable of caring for herself. She needs to work on getting herself better for the child."

Strongly agree.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My Pet Wussy~~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ravey Candyass:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~~My ... [snip!] ... was the point of pointing it out? Do you feel better now?"</blockquote> Of course I do. Not sure what your deal is."</blockquote>




My deal is the women like you on this site. He came on here asking for help. Not if who he's having sex with is illegal or not. But of course people like you only focus on one thing. Heaven forbd you actually give advice pertaining to the question.

I myself got pregnant twice on the b/c pill so it can happen.. it seems like she has been through a lot for her age and right now shes confused and scared she needs to make a doc appointment and get the help she needs.