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Should I or shouldnt i pay

Yes
 
85% (39 votes)
No
 
15% (7 votes)

re: Should I or shouldnt i pay

posted 5th Feb
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" While working with a employer NO I would ... [snip!] ... If one of the employees did that to SO and refused to pay their asses would be waiting in the EI office the next day."

EI?
Im guessing your significant other owns a business?

If so. Good luck with that if it ever happens. He will be ass up in fees that he would have to pay for some petty smurf like that.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 5th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" EI? Im guessing your significant other owns a business? If so. Good luck with that if it ever happens. He will be ass up in fees that he would have to pay for some petty smurf like that. "</blockquote>




Not if the employee is already slacking and that's just the icing in the cake. And SO is a lawyer.
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Vancouver, British Columbia
posted 5th Feb
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" EI? Im guessing your significant other ... [snip!] ... "</blockquote> Not if the employee is already slacking and that's just the icing in the cake. And SO is a lawyer."

But she just stated that in FIVE years she MAYBE messed up THREE times.
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I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 5th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" But she just stated that in FIVE years she MAYBE messed up THREE times. "</blockquote>




And then she's late etc etc. God only knows what she isn't admitting to.
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Vancouver, British Columbia
posted 5th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" No I just sit on my ass all day and do not a damn thing. Yes I have a job. But it's not YOUR place to ... [snip!] ... where we personally were getting sued for 670,000 that person who messed that up is on leave. Luckily we got it down to 67,000."</blockquote>




Lol. No. Just no to everything.
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posted 5th Feb
Quoting A mother & wife:" No I just sit on my ass all day and do not a damn thing. Yes I have a job. But it's not YOUR place to ... [snip!] ... where we personally were getting sued for 670,000 that person who messed that up is on leave. Luckily we got it down to 67,000."

do you really think taking your employer to court is easy??

Smurf, I just had Ontario human rights take my ex employer for free and it was hard as hell to get done, my friend is suing the same employer and went to her own private lawyer, its been a year, nothing is done and shes paid out her ass for it.

Flip...if either of us could have paid a measly $85 to get out of what we got into I would have done it in a heart beat.
quotesmurfs?
I'm due August 23rd (a girl), have 1 child & live in Hamilton, Ontario
posted 5th Feb
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" But she just stated that in FIVE years ... [snip!] ... MAYBE messed up THREE times. "</blockquote> And then she's late etc etc. God only knows what she isn't admitting to."

I know the original poster. She is not one to lie about what happens.

Yes she is late and so is everyone else. Things DO happen. There are WRECKS. You act like you nor your significant other arent ever late to anything come on now. A employer understands things like that happen.
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I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 5th Feb
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" do you really think taking your employer to court is easy?? Smurf, I just had Ontario human rights take ... [snip!] ... it. Flip...if either of us could have paid a measly $85 to get out of what we got into I would have done it in a heart beat. "

Of course it is not easy. I just stated how I've dealt with that on first hand.  
When someone sued my employer and I had to get the documentation ready for a depo. and such it took almost 4 years. Trust me I know.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 5th Feb
Quoting A mother & wife:" No I just sit on my ass all day and do not a damn thing. Yes I have a job. But it's not YOUR place to ... [snip!] ... where we personally were getting sued for 670,000 that person who messed that up is on leave. Luckily we got it down to 67,000."

Uhhhhh.....what?

I don't know how the laws are in PA. I live in VA, and unless you have it in writing that you were fired specifically because you are the wrong religion, race, or sexual orientation, you are smurfed as far as suing for wrongful termination. The laws vary by state, but it's my understanding that most states are at-will, and it is just about impossible to get anywhere with a lawsuit if you are fired. Even if you have piles of evidence of sexual harassment, or anything like that, the courts just about always side with the employers.

It sucks, but I understand it too. If the laws didn't protect business, then any smurf who's pissed about getting fired could bring down a whole company, which serves no benefit to the community whatsoever.
quotesmurfs?
I'm due August 20th (a girl), have 1 child & live in District of Columbia
posted 5th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" I know the original poster. She is not one to lie about what happens. Yes she is late and so is everyone ... [snip!] ... like you nor your significant other arent ever late to anything come on now. A employer understands things like that happen."</blockquote>




She stated "3 BIG times" so that implies that she has messed up more then 3.
I don't have to work so I'm never late. Either way though she said she would pay for it so she should.
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Vancouver, British Columbia
posted 5th Feb
Quoting Stfu Shirley:" Uhhhhh.....what? I don't know how the laws are in PA. I live in VA, and unless you have it in writing ... [snip!] ... smurf who's pissed about getting fired could bring down a whole company, which serves no benefit to the community whatsoever."

First off I am not in PA. Second. WRONG! I work in the legal field you are not as you say "smurfed". You just have to have enough to back your case up.

I honestly think it regards what you bring to the table. If you do not have supporting evidence then you are screwed. But like myself I keep track of EVERYTHING. Emails, time, etc.

But every court and every business is different. All I have to say to everyone is always keep everything. Track everything and keep files of everything.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 5th Feb
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" I know the original poster. She is not ... [snip!] ... messed up more then 3. I don't have to work so I'm never late. Either way though she said she would pay for it so she should."
To her Three BIG times could just mean that she didnt type a document correctly. You do not know what people think as big. So stop assuming.

Plus do you not understand real well this is what she stated:
I have maybe smurfed up BIG time maybe 3 times the whole time ive been here.
That means the whole 5 years only three time. Woppty do!!!

Also once again assuming and not reading. I said that "you arent ever late to anything"
That does not mean a job. ANYTHING DEAR ANYTHING!
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
posted 5th Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" To her Three BIG times could just mean that she didnt type a document correctly. You do not know what ... [snip!] ... again assuming and not reading. I said that "you arent ever late to anything" That does not mean a job. ANYTHING DEAR ANYTHING!"</blockquote>




I have yet to be late for a doctors apt or a dentist apt. So yes, I'm not late EVER in fact I show up at least 15 minutes early.
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Vancouver, British Columbia
posted 5th Feb
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" To her Three BIG times could just mean ... [snip!] ... have yet to be late for a doctors apt or a dentist apt. So yes, I'm not late EVER in fact I show up at least 15 minutes early."
!! same here
I have yet had an employer that accepted me being late because 'life happens'. Everyone gets life happens that's why your suppose to anticipate it. If I was scheduled to start at 5, my boss doesn't want me there at 5:10 because traffics bad..I need to leave earlier.
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I'm due November 3rd, have 1 child & live in Holland, Michigan
posted 5th Feb
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" To her Three BIG times could just mean ... [snip!] ... have yet to be late for a doctors apt or a dentist apt. So yes, I'm not late EVER in fact I show up at least 15 minutes early."

My grandmother is the same way. But she has been late at times. So for you to sya you are NEVER late I HIGHLY doubt that.
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I have 2 kids & live in Pennsylvania
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