Quoting kelsey054:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Baby Rocs Mommy[LPC]:</b>" I get what everyone is saying but ... [snip!] ... because i dont want her to fire me because i know she will."</blockquote> Well bring it up to your bosses attention."
I'm sure it doesn't need to be brought to her attention. When employees say, "Well so-and-so screwed up but SHE didn't get in trouble" they sound like 5-year-olds and nobody wants a freaking kindergartener working for them.
Suck it up, pay the bill, and understand that your personal life and how stressful or overwhelming it might be is none of your employer's concern. She hired you to do your job properly.
I know it's harsh, but in most states, you can get fired for absolutely nothing, and unless you're nearly impossible to replace, there is generally a line 100 people long for any given job these days.