now I feel fat

I just expressed to SO how Im always bored and lonley. It seems all my friends have disappeared and I dont want to always bother him. He told me that I should workout and just get in my zone. Maybe I'm just taking it the wrong way. I feel like I should take a hint or something. I told him maybe I should make a goal to lose 50lbs by summer. He said I should do it.

Nothing wrong with trying to get in better health. As long as he is being positive and trying to support you, I would be happy about it.

Maybe he just meant get out of the house and do something?
I loved going to the gym and there's nothing wrong with staying fit

Quoting Salad Fingers:" Nothing wrong with trying to get in better health. As long as he is being positive and trying to support you, I would be happy about it. "

I know its just it made me feel more self conscience than I already am

I think it was just a suggestion for something to do.
Make a small goal first. 10-15lbs at a time. Reaching a goal will make you feel good and encourage yourself to continue.

Quoting Secret Service:" I just expressed to SO how Im always bored and lonley. It seems all my friends have disappeared and I ... [snip!] ... like I should take a hint or something. I told him maybe I should make a goal to lose 50lbs by summer. He said I should do it."

I feel bad for guys because how do you get your SO to lose weight without looking like a total dick? I mean maybe he didn't mean that, but if he did is that so wrong?

Quoting *PeanutButter*:" Maybe he just meant get out of the house and do something? I loved going to the gym and there's nothing wrong with staying fit"

I just recently (well 5 months ago lol) stopped going to the gym. I do miss it but i need a job again to afford it.

Quoting Secret Service:" I know its just it made me feel more self conscience than I already am"

Well you shouldn't feel self-conscious. I'm sure he loves you no matter how you are but just trying to lightly encourage you to take that step toward bettering your health.

Quoting Kimber-lily:" I think it was just a suggestion for something to do. Make a small goal first. 10-15lbs at a time. Reaching a goal will make you feel good and encourage yourself to continue."

im in my 140's I would love to lose at leat 15

Quoting Secret Service:" im in my 140's I would love to lose at leat 15"

Why would you want to lose 50 pounds then? That's excessive.

Quoting Amαndα ♕:" I feel bad for guys because how do you get your SO to lose weight without looking like a total dick? I mean maybe he didn't mean that, but if he did is that so wrong? "

no you got a point

Quoting Salad Fingers:" Why would you want to lose 50 pounds then? That's excessive. "

I was being sarcastic with him. I dint expect him to agree =/

Quoting Secret Service:" no you got a point"

After I had my daughter Harry was like "Wanna do sit ups with me?" And I was like "Sure! I need to get in shape anyway." After about 3 minutes he's like "Here I'll hold your feet and you do them"

It didn't take me long to realize I was doing sit ups all by myself and he was watching family guy.

Lmao

Quoting Secret Service:" I was being sarcastic with him. I dint expect him to agree =/"

Omg lol, don't feel bad. Guys have NO concept of how much a pound is.

Quoting Amαndα ♕:" After I had my daughter Harry was like "Wanna do sit ups with me?" And I was like "Sure! I need to get ... [snip!] ... and you do them" It didn't take me long to realize I was doing sit ups all by myself and he was watching family guy. Lmao"

That's so funny.

My husband and I joke with each other about stuff like that and we tend to be really open. Since I got pregnant my belly has been poking out more and more even though I'm only 13 weeks but he light-heatedly calls me "Mother of the potbelly" in our native language. I joke on him cuz he's very skinny and try to get him eat peanut butter to put on weight lol.