Quoting XoPiNKoX:" Ive never partied or had tons of crazy nights. I really do have a boring life lol but when I am out with ... [snip!] ... a child into the world intentionally knowing that its not the right time. I feel better knowing im not the only one though lol"
I'm the same way I'm 19. I had a lot of miscarriages though no adoption experience, and was told I couldn't have children. I had baby fever before I was told that after it just got worse but there was nothing I could do... So I thought. But having a house and a steady income and someone you're going to marry is what makes it enjoyable. I'm almost 20, but my SO is 26 and he has all those things. And I was lucky enough to find and fall in love with him. And somehow I guess since I gave up I got pregnant and carried to well almost past due I was gonna say term lol... We'll get married soon. I want to make sure my credits a bit better first so I don't ruin his etc., But waiting until your older is the responsible thing. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. And I think it's amazing you were able to do such a good thing for the first baby. Not many people realize how hard it'd be. etc., I don't even yet because this will be my first. SO's second thank goodness. Good luck. There's really nothing you can do. SO's ex has it bad, she just keeps buying small pets
now she has a ridiculous number of pets and still wants another baby.