Quoting Kait.:" My SO and I have been together for 3 years now and are supposed to be getting married in two months. ... [snip!] ... about not getting to see my kids 24/7 and not having a family. We used to be so happy... I don't know what happened "
For the porn.. I would talk to him about how you love him and want to marry him.. but not like this.. not with him lying about porn all the time and all that.
I don't like porn for religious and non religious reasons both. And I would not want to be with someone who felt differently then me about it. There are some churches that offer free counseling.. and premarital programs I would def look into it and do that with him. Also some churches have groups for men with porn issues.. to help them stop with that habit and give them support. Celebrate recovery is one group he can join at church you can look it up.. alot of churches have it. If he's struggling with porn he can join and they can help him stop.