Quoting Little Vine:" I don't remember your custody situation offhand; does he have visitation?"
Well... he never ever sees her. I filed all the paper work and I didn't have an address to serve him at so I couldn't file the last paper that would actually send it to a judge. Also, if the judge DOESN'T grant me full custody, then he will give douche a particular schedule that I KNOW he won't abide by... and I don't want him talking my daughter out of obligation and treating her smurffy... he's already done enough damage to her life.
So I've been on the fence. But now I don't want any of his family to have anything to do with her... so I am just going to file... wish me luck... I have so much anxiety over all of this... it was so much easier to just ignore it.