re: 20 days till due date and my husband calls it quits..

Quoting Brittany Eigenbrod:" alright so heres the story me and him met in key west i was on the streets i didnt know tht he had been ... [snip!] ... all i really wanted was him to stand by my side and b there for me. now weve officially broken up and im not sure what to do."

Definitely sounds like a lot to take in, especially when your pregnant?

Are you still in a shelter? It sounds like it's the best place for you at the moment, since you'd receive the best care for yourself. He may be scared that it's getting so close to the due date, he may also just be that guy who bails. I hope not, but you can't make him be with you or man up and be a father to your child.



It might just take some time. Things might work out in the long run.

Quoting I'm Marbles:" I know money isnt everything, but WHY would you, be with someone who cant provide for himself yet alone ... [snip!] ... the picture. I am sorry but you are stupid for picking a loser, and not bettering yourself or your life for you or your child."

well we were we had moved up from having nothing to getting jobs buying a truck moving to PA have reallt good jobs and being able to provide and thats when i found out i was pregnant. we were actually doing something and things seemed like they wld b okay. but once we got laid off things went right back down again.

Quoting Brittany Eigenbrod:" well we were we had moved up from having nothing to getting jobs buying a truck moving to PA have reallt ... [snip!] ... actually doing something and things seemed like they wld b okay. but once we got laid off things went right back down again."

He is a LOSER, 30 some years old and living on the streets? Yeah that screams he is nothing but that.

Are you actually married or are you just calling him your husband? officially breaking up once married is a divorce.


How do you plan on paying for your child?

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm Marbles:</b>" He is a LOSER, 30 some years old and living on the streets? Yeah that screams he is nothing but that. ... [snip!] ... just calling him your husband? officially breaking up once married is a divorce. How do you plan on paying for your child? "</blockquote>


Ding ding ding.

He doesnt have anything to offer you or your child. Im guessing your age has a lot to do with why you're heartbroken over this guy.

Quoting I'm Marbles:" He is a LOSER, 30 some years old and living on the streets? Yeah that screams he is nothing but that. ... [snip!] ... just calling him your husband? officially breaking up once married is a divorce. How do you plan on paying for your child? "

Hit the nail on the head.

Quoting I'm Marbles:" He is a LOSER, 30 some years old and living on the streets? Yeah that screams he is nothing but that. ... [snip!] ... just calling him your husband? officially breaking up once married is a divorce. How do you plan on paying for your child? "

 

Like seriously... Have you thought about what bringing a child into an unstable environment such as a shelter, and a 33 year old MAN who has nothing to offer you or that child is going to do to that child? I know this isn't what you asked, but this is one situation where you shouldn't have explained.... Because that's just Idk. Good luck. I wouldn't hold my breath on that guy what is he offering you? Nothing. He's 33 first off you're 19 I know my SO is 26 he also takes great care of me... This guy sounds like a POS... I would not lose sleep over this. Worry about that kid and how you'll support them down the line. Did you graduate high school? Are you looking into college? What's the shelter going to help you with? (<-- serious question) What are they offering you. Good luck. I'd be completely lost in your shoes. This guy definitely sounds like he shouldn't be breeding.

Quoting Brittany Eigenbrod:" so ive been with my husband for over a year now and now im 20 days from having my son and he just doesnt ... [snip!] ... online about my problems but i am by myself right now and just want sombody to talk to abt it. either way this smurf rly sucks."

sounds like he's overwhelmed... just try to wait it out. i'm sorry