Quoting Little momma09:" I also think you should both find names you agree on.... it really isn't fair that you can pick the boy ... [snip!] ... liked.. and went through them and narrowed them down to names we BOTH liked.. without your SO you wouldn't even be pregnant...."Oh Yeah I guess I worded that wrong James and I picked out Aksel together I found it but he really likes it he prefers the spelling Axel but I prefer the traditonal spelling Aksel other than that we agree on the boys name completely. I actually spoke with James finally about it I was worried it would hurt his feeling if I told I didnt like the name to the point I was thinking about just going through with adalaya but after talking with him we have been throwing names around! Which Im really happy about.