re: I just don't understand (as)

I hate this guy. He is such a douche. I know you want to be with him, but he's literally smurfing with your head so badly that you may never recover from what you've just been through.
You need to get away from him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **§emily§**(10 weeks):</b>" Is it all him? Or are you giving signals too, in no way shape or form am I judging you for anything, ... [snip!] ... having and it will give you something to work towards before you have your kids and give them a healthy upbringing all in one"</blockquote>




I completely understand what you mean and no you aren't too blunt. And you know honestly I considered it for a moment then talked to a good friend of mine and she was able to make me see the light. ive never been the type to trap someone. but I think this sudden change is a result from him talking to his mother. he finally came clean to get and she was very disappointed in him and basically told him that was a life and it wasn't his place to make that decision for me. she asked him what the harm would be if he did have a kid again and he couldn't see a real reason. And ever since then he has been doing this. I have been.completely honest about my birth control, he even wore a condom once because he wanted to be careful. im gonna talk to him tonight cuz I don't get.it.

Quoting pretty 'n' pink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting **§emily§**(10 weeks):</b>" Is it all him? Or are you giving ... [snip!] ... my birth control, he even wore a condom once because he wanted to be careful. im gonna talk to him tonight cuz I don't get.it."

I would stop havign sex with him. You dotn know if he has made holes in the condoms. He doesnt understand. You have tried talking to him. My ex told me after my abortion [wasnt his baby] that if he wanted to he would get me pregnant and I was going to be forced to keep his baby because I wasnt going to kill his kid. Then he changed into if I got pregnant he was going to force me into an abortion. At one time he kicked me out because my period was late, and he wanted to see blood in my pad before he let me come back.

Please for your sake do not have sex with him anymore. Talk with him this last time and if he still does not get it, I would leave. It is not healthy for you to keep on getting mind smurfed by him. What are you going to do if you are pregnant?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" I would stop havign sex with him. You dotn know if he has made holes in the condoms. He doesnt understand. ... [snip!] ... I would leave. It is not healthy for you to keep on getting mind smurfed by him. What are you going to do if you are pregnant? "</blockquote>




omg Im soo sorry that happened to you. that is terrible.
I am going to talk to him tonight to get it straightened out. but I've already told him multiple times "you need to be very careful because should this happen again in not having another abortion" it was far too traumatic of an experience for me. he even told me he'd never want me to have. an abortion again. so I don't know what he's thinking

Quoting pretty 'n' pink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" I would stop havign sex with him. ... [snip!] ... of an experience for me. he even told me he'd never want me to have. an abortion again. so I don't know what he's thinking"

I think he wants to replacethe baby.... I honestly would not stay with him... I am here if you need to talk.