Quoting meggymama:" But its a huge deal to some people and they are scared. I am proud to think that i can save lives after ... [snip!] ... horrible, I think we have to respect that and accept that whilst it would be great if everyone did not everyone can or will. "
but why are people scared , is because they don't understand , because they don't want others to have their organs , because of their beliefs
i think until it happens to a family member of someone you know alot of people don't really think about it , i lost my nephew due to cancer (he was 5) and it really opened our families eyes to it , we are all donors but my husband isnt , i have asked him why and he cant really explain why he isnt