14, going on 15, and may be pregnant?

Idk where else to turn. It's kinda a long story, but I just need to vent. I had sex exactly 19 day s ago, and my period was due 2 days ago, and it never came. I know I'm young, and I may have made a huge mistake. The baby's father is much older, and I know him having sex with me is wrong, but as a soon tob be mother,I want him in my childs life. Don't all moms want that? I'm super depressed because I told my older sister I may be, and she tells me I'll never succeed in life with a baby and she says I'm gonna fail and the baby would be better off dead. I'm pro life though, so that's out of the question. I just need advice because right now I just wanna go away. Idk how to handle this.

you're only two days late, don't go jumping to conclusions. Have you done a test?

First step is take a test. Second step, if the test is positive, is talk to your parents.

Is he older than 19? If so your parents or guardians can call the police. They can do a DNA test and have him locked up.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" Is he older than 19? If so your parents or guardians can call the police. They can do a DNA test and have him locked up."</blockquote>

Yes, he's older than 19.

Quoting MustLovePinkXx:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" Is he older than 19? If so your parents ... [snip!] ... or guardians can call the police. They can do a DNA test and have him locked up."</blockquote> Yes, he's older than 19."

That's gross, on his part.

But, take a test. Being late isn't always a for sure sign of being pregnant. Stressing about possibly being pregnant could cause your period to be late. Do your parents know you were with this older boy?

slow down girl! Don't get all scared until you know for sure. Go get a blood test and pregnancy test at the doctors. I wouldn't panic just yet.

First get a test and make sure you are


Second....think carefully about what 'pro-life' means...you got to think about what kind of 'life' you can offer a child.

Take a test!GL!

go to the dollar store or walmart and get a test - very cheap $1 or less and find out for sure.

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" First get a test and make sure you are Second....think carefully about what 'pro-life' means...you got to think about what kind of 'life' you can offer a child."</blockquote>




I'll do the best I can. You can't tell me being dead is better than being the child of a teen mother?

I'm pretty much in the same spot as you but i am 16. I would get a blood test done. I had sex 15 days ago.

Good luck.

Quoting MustLovePinkXx:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" First get a test and make sure you ... [snip!] ... I'll do the best I can. You can't tell me being dead is better than being the child of a teen mother?"

there in things in life much much much worse than death

Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" First get a test and make sure you are Second....think carefully about what 'pro-life' means...you got to think about what kind of 'life' you can offer a child."

This, too. 100%. At 14, you can't work, OP. If you can, it's very minimal hours. You cannot support a baby on your own. If your parents choose to press charges against this man, they can. Then making him incapable of taking care of the baby. THEN, the responsibility falls on your parents. And they have all the right in the world to refuse to help you.


Then what are you going to do? Drop out of school and try to find someone that will hire a 14 year old? What kind of life is that for your baby? Just something to think about, if the test comes up positive.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" This, too. 100%. At 14, you can't work, OP. If you can, it's very minimal hours. You cannot support ... [snip!] ... will hire a 14 year old? What kind of life is that for your baby? Just something to think about, if the test comes up positive."</blockquote>