re: 14, going on 15, and may be pregnant?

Quoting MustLovePinkXx:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" First get a test and make sure you ... [snip!] ... I'll do the best I can. You can't tell me being dead is better than being the child of a teen mother?"

Well, there is other options if you are against abortion. I was 21 when i had my daughter and all possibilities bumped and thumped through my head. At any age you want to consider what is best for you, and your child/future child.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Hayley ♥:</b>" I'm pretty much in the same spot as you but i am 16. I would get a blood test done. I had sex 15 days ago. Good luck."</blockquote>



Thanks, so much! You too!

Quoting Destiel:" there in things in life much much much worse than death"

 

Quoting MustLovePinkXx:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" First get a test and make sure you ... [snip!] ... I'll do the best I can. You can't tell me being dead is better than being the child of a teen mother?"

beign 'dead' is not the only option you have

Regardless of whether the test is positive or not, the best advice I can give you is STOP HAVING SEX. Especially, especially, especially with men so much older than you, honey... It will ruin your life. There is no GOOD reason for a grown, adult man to be having sex with a 14 year old.

Quoting Destiel:" there in things in life much much much worse than death"

very very true and this situation has potential for some of those things happening

If u are u should put it up for adoption.. Ud be stupid too keep it.. It would grow up in major poverty.. I'm only 18 but I at least graduated high school and have a good paying job and go to college.. At 14 u can babysit basically and do yard work.. But who honestly wants there parents raising there kid.. Low life's do.. Finish school and go to college.. Then think about it or at least wait til u have a job and a good one and a car.. And a baby's dad that hopefully your parents pres charges against that's freaken nasty.. And shame on you for letting a guy do that to u.. My baby's dad is amazing and not some low life going after sex from younger girls.. That was rape even if u consented it too him.. Keep ur damn legs closed..

Honey, I am not here to place judgement at all. But you really need to be careful. I know at 14, sex seems cool. I lost my virginity at 14 & I now know that I should have waited. I had a pregnancy scare at 15. And me believing I was pregnant stressed me out so much, that I believed I was having pregnancy symptoms. Try to relax, buy a dollar store test (they are accurate, I got very clear positives at 4 1/2 weeks). If it comes up positive, don't panic...you do have options. I know you are pro life, I am as well when it comes to my own child...but I know in some cases abortion is necessary. There is also adoption. If you must parent, it is going to be extremely difficult unless you have a good support system. But there are girls who have done it, so it's not impossible. Good luck! If you need someone to talk to PM me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lisa01994:</b>" If u are u should put it up for adoption.. Ud be stupid too keep it.. It would grow up in major poverty.. ... [snip!] ... some low life going after sex from younger girls.. That was rape even if u consented it too him.. Keep ur damn legs closed.."</blockquote>




You really shouldn't say things like that, yeah she should be careful but what if it was rape? Wouldn't you feel like complete smurf for shaming her for it? She is still young, an older man can easily talk a young girl into anything he wants just by saying "I love you". It happened to me...& probably a lot more women on here than you think.

First take a test.
Second I am thinking that your best option is to adopt your child out since you are pro-life. You cannot support a child at 14 and I don't know your parents so I don't know if they would support your child. The male that got you pregnant will likely end up in jail unless your parents are cool with an older male influencing their daughter to have sex with him. (That is just how they will see it no matter how you feel about the situation.) So go get a pregnancy test done you can always find a pregnancy resource clinic and they will give you free pregnancy testing if you cannot afford it. If you are they will give you anything you need and they will tell you all your options and just help you through the whole process.

Quoting Lisa01994:" If u are u should put it up for adoption.. Ud be stupid too keep it.. It would grow up in major poverty.. ... [snip!] ... some low life going after sex from younger girls.. That was rape even if u consented it too him.. Keep ur damn legs closed.."

 

Take a test and if it's positive, talk to your parents.

take a test 1st..but plzz do not listen to the negative comments on here...you woulnt be the 1st 15 year old to have a baby and keep it..no matter what you have to do,keep your baby..there are many programs out there that help teen mothers..you can do it and it sounds like you would love your baby

<blockquote><b>Quoting MustLovePinkXx:</b>" Idk where else to turn. It's kinda a long story, but I just need to vent. I had sex exactly 19 day s ... [snip!] ... life though, so that's out of the question. I just need advice because right now I just wanna go away. Idk how to handle this."</blockquote>


I was 14 when I got pregnant but I was only one month away from being 15. Please write me I know how you feel I will help. Just don't let anyone tel you want to do if you want the baby you keep it!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Valentines day baby girl:</b>" take a test 1st..but plzz do not listen to the negative comments on here...you woulnt be the 1st 15 year ... [snip!] ... your baby..there are many programs out there that help teen mothers..you can do it and it sounds like you would love your baby"</blockquote>



Don't tell her "no matter what keep your baby". She needs to sit down and think this over completely.