how to approach

Without scaring her or putting her on the spot? My kids spent the night at the Babusitters (very good friend) when we got home my daughter said that the teenage girl's (they had to watch them for an hr their mom had to work, we got home late) put tape on my 1yr old penis and that he was crying and taking it off. I did tell my friend and she said she would talk to her kids and I'd talk to my daughter because this would not be tolerated. My daughter also said they weren't laughing, did it once with black tape and that they didn't put it on his weewee but they did.

I'm so confused but I want to get to the bottom of this, I mean a 6 yr old just doesn't come up with this stuff...

I need advice please. Post and run tia!

You have to be super careful to not put ideas into her head. Can you take her to someone like a counsellor?

What the smurf   WHAT??

Quoting Jude ♥ JGL:" You have to be super careful to not put ideas into her head. Can you take her to someone like a counsellor?"

Or a child psychologist. They have special ways of figuring out if children are being truthful about this stuff or not.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Raindancer:</b>" Or a child psychologist. They have special ways of figuring out if children are being truthful about this stuff or not."</blockquote>




  I would do that first just in case she was confused and you ens up ruining a teen's life forever.

Omfg! I'd be LIVID! I'd sit down with your daughter & calmy ask about it but ask about what else they did while they were over there. A 6 year old has no reason to lie about something like that. If your daughter is still telling you that those teens were messing with your 1 year olds penis i'd call the cops & press charges. They had no right to technically molest your son

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude ♥ JGL:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Raindancer:</b>" Or a child psychologist. They have special ... [snip!] ...   I would do that first just in case she was confused and you ens up ruining a teen's life forever."</blockquote>

This too!

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jude ♥ JGL:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Raindancer:</b>" ... [snip!] ... would do that first just in case she was confused and you ens up ruining a teen's life forever."</blockquote> This too!"</blockquote>




Your suggestion was basically the exact opposite of mine  

I would hold off on having your children over there until you have DD speak with a child psychologist. I'm not saying that your daughter is for sure lying, but children do make up stories. If you're thinking of pressing charges I wouldn't jump to doing so until you get to the bottom of the story with your daughter.

You let your 1 year old and 6 year old sleep over at a babysitters house?That is shocking....

Also, where the hell was the baby sitter if I'm reading this correctly?

Your children spent the night, the baby sitter had to watch some teens, and these teens allegedly put black tape on your son's penis under the baby sitters care or? If I got that right I'm just curious where the baby sitter was during the time frame. Did she not hear your son crying, did she not respond to him crying? I'm just confused...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:</b>" You let your 1 year old and 6 year old sleep over at a babysitters house?That is shocking...."</blockquote>




She said that it was a good friend of hers and that it was while the friend was at work because they were late.

Quoting 624582:" Also, where the hell was the baby sitter if I'm reading this correctly? Your children spent the night, ... [snip!] ... sitter was during the time frame. Did she not hear your son crying, did she not respond to him crying? I'm just confused..."

Oh. I was assuming the teens were the babysitters.Read it wrong.

Quoting Jude ♥ JGL:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:</b>" You let your 1 year old and 6 year old ... [snip!] ... She said that it was a good friend of hers and that it was while the friend was at work because they were late."

So the teens kept her children while the baby sitter left?