re: how to approach

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude ♥ JGL:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:</b>" I am gonna ask her what they all did ... [snip!] ... think that! And I would just look up child psychologists in.your area OR call your local police nonemergency line and ask them."</blockquote>




I know I didn't, I'm just hoping this is all a terrible misunderstanding...

Thanks

<blockquote><b>Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:</b>" I am gonna ask her what they all did at the babysitters, if I feel she can't tell me the truth I'll ask ... [snip!] ... violated by my uncle, grandfather and step father so I'm sure it not just strangers or a friend that would harm my children."</blockquote>



I think you are making a good decision about your child.GL with that!


About the post,I'm sorry I offended you.I will say that every mother needs a break.I see no wrong in that.All I said is I think leaving a 1 year old over night at a babysitters is a little much IMO.But now that you know what came with it I hope you get to the bottom of it!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:</b>" I am gonna ask her what they all did ... [snip!] ... over night at a babysitters is a little much IMO.But now that you know what came with it I hope you get to the bottom of it!"</blockquote>



I still find this highly offensive, now that I know what it came with? Yes sexual violation happens to every child that goes to a babysitter.

<blockquote><b>Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting It's ... [snip!] ... highly offensive, now that I know what it came with? Yes sexual violation happens to every child that goes to a babysitter."</blockquote>




That was the outcome,I mean it isn't your fault.Whats done is done,all you can do is get the situation straight with your friend or proceed a different path.And no,not every child is sexually abused by a babysitter,their are other ways.