re: how to approach

Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" I did read. What have you contributed other than ... [snip!] ... she trusts?"</blockquote> I don't think I made anyone feel like smurf,other than you.She hasn't even responded."

Because she's offline? If you think you made me feel like smurf for something personal you are wrong. Again, what have you contributed other than you think it is wrong to let a young child stay the night without you?

<blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" Because she's offline? If you think you made me feel like smurf for something personal you are wrong. ... [snip!] ... are wrong. Again, what have you contributed other than you think it is wrong to let a young child stay the night without you?"</blockquote>




Offline or not,she hasn't responded.So don't respond for somone.And you are a nobody for me to even try to make you feel sorry for me.Contribute?So I have to agree and please,like you to let a 1 year old sleep over someone's house.Ugh no,I have my own opinion.

Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" Because she's offline? If you think you made me ... [snip!] ... I have to agree and please,like you to let a 1 year old sleep over someone's house.Ugh no,I have my own opinion."

Were you trying to make me feel sorry for you? I'm sorry, you've confused me with the entirety of your post.

OP asked for advice on how, I'm pretty sure, she should go about getting to the bottom of her daughters accusations. How did you contribute? Can you answer that? Insinuating that she never should have allowed her children to stay the night at the baby sitters house is redundant as it has, in fact, already happened. Are you going to offer OP with a time machine along with that comment? If not, you have not contributed anything remotely useful to OP.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" Were you trying to make me feel sorry for you? I'm sorry, you've confused me with the entirety of your ... [snip!] ... going to offer OP with a time machine along with that comment? If not, you have not contributed anything remotely useful to OP."</blockquote>




Please show me where I'm trying to make YOU feel sorry for me?I only responded to your question.Dont flatter yourself.


Contribute,give advice to her is simple.Its logic sense,DON'T LEAVE YOUR 1 YEAR OLD again,smurf happends.

Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" Were you trying to make me feel sorry for you? ... [snip!] ... flatter yourself. Contribute,give advice to her is simple.Its logic sense,DON'T LEAVE YOUR 1 YEAR OLD again,smurf happends."

You said....

"Offline or not,she hasn't responded.So don't respond for somone.And you are a nobody for me to even try to make you feel sorry for me.Contribute?So I have to agree and please,like you to let a 1 year old sleep over someone's house.Ugh no,I have my own opinion."

Do you even know what you're typing? Like I said, your posts are very confusing.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" You said.... "Offline or not,she hasn't responded.So don't respond for somone.And you are a nobody ... [snip!] ... house.Ugh no,I have my own opinion." Do you even know what you're typing? Like I said, your posts are very confusing."</blockquote>




Can't you read?

I said,and mean.........


YOU are a nobody(as in no one important)for me to try to make YOU feel sorry for me.As in nada.Get it?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" You said.... "Offline or not,she hasn't responded.So ... [snip!] ... said,and mean......... YOU are a nobody(as in no one important)for me to try to make YOU feel sorry for me.As in nada.Get it?"</blockquote>




Is English your first language?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude ♥ JGL:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" ... [snip!] ... me to try to make YOU feel sorry for me.As in nada.Get it?"</blockquote> Is English your first language?"</blockquote>



When I'm not sleepy yes yes it is.

Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" You said.... "Offline or not,she hasn't responded.So ... [snip!] ... said,and mean......... YOU are a nobody(as in no one important)for me to try to make YOU feel sorry for me.As in nada.Get it?"

-_-

Oh, I get it! But, I have a feeling what I'm understanding is something completely different than what you're very poorly trying to explain.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" -_- Oh, I get it! But, I have a feeling what I'm understanding is something completely different than what you're very poorly trying to explain."</blockquote>




At least you got it.Even though it took awhile  

Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" -_- Oh, I get it! But, I have a feeling what ... [snip!] ... than what you're very poorly trying to explain."</blockquote> At least you got it.Even though it took awhile  "

Yes, please, insert that eye rolling smiley as if you have achieved something other than looking like an idiot for arguing (who the smurf really knows at this point) with me. I'm going to bed and may I suggest you do so as well? Come back after you're well rested and take a gander at the smurf you've spewed, tell me if it makes any sense. If it still makes sense tomorrow, you win.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting 624582:</b>" Yes, please, insert that eye rolling smiley as if you have achieved something other than looking like ... [snip!] ... and take a gander at the smurf you've spewed, tell me if it makes any sense. If it still makes sense tomorrow, you win.  "</blockquote>




Lol,you insult somone after they leave*clap clap* did it really take you that long to say something back?Jeez wizz woman,get over it.Im sorry I offended you by not agreeing with YOU.....

 

I am gonna ask her what they all did at the babysitters, if I feel she can't tell me the truth I'll ask a counselor. She has been lying alot so I'm afraid that she is lying and she doesn't understand that this is a serious situation but how would I just ask a counselor?

And for someone to say why would I leave my children with a trusted friend overnight is absolutely ridiculous. So it's a crime that dh andi I would spend alone time? Basically saying it's my fault this happened to my son, like I wanted him to be violated like this. News flash, it can happen to anyone and it can be from anyone. I was sexually violated by my uncle, grandfather and step father so I'm sure it not just strangers or a friend that would harm my children.

Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:" I am gonna ask her what they all did at the babysitters, if I feel she can't tell me the truth I'll ask ... [snip!] ... violated by my uncle, grandfather and step father so I'm sure it not just strangers or a friend that would harm my children."

She's an idiot.

Good luck  

<blockquote><b>Quoting It's so Fluffayy!:</b>" I am gonna ask her what they all did at the babysitters, if I feel she can't tell me the truth I'll ask ... [snip!] ... violated by my uncle, grandfather and step father so I'm sure it not just strangers or a friend that would harm my children."</blockquote>




You did absolutely NOTHING WRONG. Do not think that! And I would just look up child psychologists in.your area OR call your local police nonemergency line and ask them.