This Might Be TMI... But I Need Advice..

So I am in need of advice. My boyfriends and I sex life is amazing just one problem.. I only "get off" if he's licking me. I feel so bad. I try everything to help myself get off while he's in me but my body isn't having it. Any advice as to how i can help myself get off by other ways than just oral.

Another thing is he keeps trying to get me to squirt but my body is not having that either lol. Sorry if all this is TMI.

Have you tried different positions? I think you need to take more control and find the right angle for you. Sometimes when i'm smurfing if the position is bad and it's not feeling that great i'll wriggle and move my legs and such until it starts feeing amazing.

For squirting, get him to start with fingers, it's easier to hit that spot with fingers because he can curve them much easier than his penis.

I have never ... ever ... ever got off from penetration. Even with stimulation its a no go. Some women just can't and its nothing to be ashamed off.

Try getting on top and grinding him.

first thing.. i NEVER had an orgasm from a guy inside me until about a month ago
i have been with my SO for a year and he gave me one!
the only way i can get one is if he is literally laying ontop of me.. that angle was perfect.

and squirting, when you orgasm don't clench and don't let him stop just stay completely relaxed and don't tighten any muscles and if you feel like you're going to pee (which you won't) then just continue

That's the only way i get off too,Hence the reason he does it. I can never get off from sex alone. I'm not a squirter either, some women just don't squirt.

Quoting emerald01:" Try getting on top and grinding him."

I agree with emerald, with you in control, somehow someway you should find a way to climax. But don't just go on top and have him lay there like a log. Have him massage your breasts or something to add a little extra stimulation, even if you need to grab his hands yourself and put them there to encourage him.