re: Open relationships?

<blockquote><b>Quoting lovinthem04:</b>" I like sex too...with my husband lol "</blockquote>


  This.
DH keeps me plenty satsfied.

Not my thing. Dh & I got together when I was young & he's the only person I've been with. I just never had a feeling like I missed out on anything or had any curiosities that involve inviting someone else in. Anything else we can do on our own.

To me, being in a committed relationship means monogamy. If I wasn't going to be monogamous, then I wouldn't bother setting up house with someone. For me the two ideas don't mesh at all.

What others do is of no concern to me generally.

not my sort of thing ... SO and I have a modified relationship where we are open to threesomes or moresomes but only if the other is present. We haven't done anything like that though in LONG time ... just haven't wanted to. I personally couldn't share my partner completely without being there to witness that everything was being done correctly. Then again I'm the Dominant in a BDSM relationship, so there's a certain level of possessiveness there.

It's not for me but if that's what other people want to do and they can handle it then more power to them. The only thing I'm wondering is you seem very comfortable with it, responsible particularly in terms of when TTC, etc so why do want to know what other people think? Like why could you even care less what anyone else's opinion is?

<blockquote><b>Quoting xTJ:</b>" It's not for me but if that's what other people want to do and they can handle it then more power to ... [snip!] ... when TTC, etc so why do want to know what other people think? Like why could you even care less what anyone else's opinion is?"</blockquote>


Mainly out of curiosity of how common it is and what others views are on it   I love listening and knowing other people's views, weather I agree or not, I like too know how others process certain information and ideas and how they differ or are similar too my own   it's definitely not something I'm trying too get gratification from, nor do I care what others think about it.... Just simply curious  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Avalei's mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting xTJ:</b>" It's not for me but if that's what other people want ... [snip!] ... not something I'm trying too get gratification from, nor do I care what others think about it.... Just simply curious  "</blockquote>




Well you'll find all different views on BG, I see plenty of people who engage in threesomes and poly relationships on here. It is a good mix of people.

i know this was posted almost 24 hours ago but SO and i have been discussing this. we love our relationship but sexually were not getting what we want from eachother. we have the best relationship but sex is important.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Krystie321:</b>" i know this was posted almost 24 hours ago but SO and i have been discussing this. we love our relationship ... [snip!] ... relationship but sexually were not getting what we want from eachother. we have the best relationship but sex is important. "</blockquote>




I completely agree and understand! It's definitely not that I don't enjoy and get pleasure from just my boyfriend, but when it comes too fantasies, I feel like I'm almost cheating on him for something that is completely and totally natural and normal, and he felt the same way.... So we decided too open the lines of communication and share those experiences together