Quoting *mommy to 3*:" This is such a sucky situation. The one who's really getting hurt here is the child. I dont understand ... [snip!] ... down the road all 3 of you can get along (not saying its your fault you're not) and put the child's best interests first."
absolutely. I had made plans to "meet" her" and allow her to meet my daughter/etc.. so she should see who was around her son. She blew off the plans to meet. This was after SHE had thrown the fit to meet me to begin wtih. As a mother, I can undersatnd why she'd be upset that another woman is near her child... which is why i was willing to meet her and provide her with some comfort there. She's just... a mess.
she ordered a home visit on him, had him followed at work, had all his friends/family interviewed, etc. He's a good guy, really good job, etc. She should consider herself lucky to have a GOOD "baby daddy."
I'm stuck in an opposite situation. My daughter's father is a deadbeat. He hasn't seen her willingly since Christmas of 2011. Owes me 8000$ in child support. We actually have another court date in a fwe weeks, and he is being prosecuted by the state for contempt of court with child support. ;/