<blockquote><b>Quoting Carmen B. Rotten:</b>" I've heard doctors give some women this stuff to drink or a pill that apparently flushes the baby out ... [snip!] ... asking my friend how it worked. But I've heard they do the same for abortions as well. I dunno how true that is though.."</blockquote>

They don't do that past 9 weeks.

For a late term surgical abortion, she'd either be put under or they'd induce labor, depending on how far along she was.

And I find your tone to be highly insensitive.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Carmen B. Rotten:</b>" I've heard doctors give some women this ... [snip!] ... either be put under or they'd induce labor, depending on how far along she was. And I find your tone to be highly insensitive."

I was offering what little knowledge I knew about abortions. And you can have whatever opinion you like on my tone, I don't know of any way to nicely explain an abortion..

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carmen B. Rotten:</b>" I was offering what little knowledge I knew about abortions. And you can have whatever opinion you like on my tone, I don't know of any way to nicely explain an abortion.."</blockquote>



You didn't explain anything and it's clear you don't know what you're talking about. You sounded jokey and rude and I didn't appreciate it. A very quick google search would have told you what happens without you needing to sound so titillated while speculating on how the tissue is expelled.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Carmen B. Rotten:</b>" I was offering what little knowledge ... [snip!] ... would have told you what happens without you needing to sound so titillated while speculating on how the tissue is expelled."

lol Well I guess next time I'll do a little more research before putting a word in, for your sake. 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carmen B. Rotten:</b>" I've heard doctors give some women this stuff to drink or a pill that apparently flushes the baby out ... [snip!] ... asking my friend how it worked. But I've heard they do the same for abortions as well. I dunno how true that is though.."</blockquote>



That is only done until 9 weeks, so she still wouldn't have seen the fetus either. It is expelled over the course of a day along with all the tissue & blood. I never saw a "baby" during my experience...

Quoting Mama♥Breezy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Carmen B. Rotten:</b>" I've heard doctors give some women this ... [snip!] ... either. It is expelled over the course of a day along with all the tissue & blood. I never saw a "baby" during my experience..."

Yeah, that's the only way I knew about, I didn't know how it was done later on in the pregnancy. I don't wanna ask my friend at work, obviously, because it was a painful experience for her, but even my boss was asking, "How does that work..?" I told him I had no idea.

Quoting Carmen B. Rotten:" Yeah, that's the only way I knew about, I didn't know how it was done later on in the pregnancy. I don't ... [snip!] ... because it was a painful experience for her, but even my boss was asking, "How does that work..?" I told him I had no idea."

If it was for an incompletely miscarriage it was methotrexate. It causes cramping of the uterus so you pass the baby most often on the toilet since you cramp & contract & that is where it feels like you should be for the feelings you are having. Believe me, your not "walking around" when you pass the baby...miscarriages are small labors. And depending how far along she was when the baby passed depends on what she'd see. Sometimes all you have are blood clots, sometimes you pass an intact amniotic sac, etc. Even if it's early, it isn't necessarily easy.

Quoting justanothamotha:" If it was for an incompletely miscarriage it was methotrexate. It causes cramping of the uterus so you ... [snip!] ... all you have are blood clots, sometimes you pass an intact amniotic sac, etc. Even if it's early, it isn't necessarily easy."

Yeah, I know she was about eight weeks and was complaining that she was cramping really bad and ended up going home. I dunno why they didn't give her a doctor's note to stay out of work..

Missing limb, probably. Cleft lip, no... although I don't think you can determine if the baby has a cleft lip in utero anyway, can you? By the time you're looking for a 3D US, it's way too late to abort.

<blockquote><b>Quoting LeTs*StArT*a*RiOt!:</b>" It really depends on how bad it is, can it be repaired with surgery, and will it lessen the child's life ... [snip!] ... wouldn't be able to, then we would. But a cosmetic missing arm or a cleft lip? No, that'd be stupid to abort for that reason. "</blockquote>




Took the words out of my mouth