omg!!! :-/

My ex and I broke up in Oct. He's an smurf but he's also really sweet. Its too long of a story to go into too much detail but ya just gotta trust me on that lol anyways... we talk off and on and the other day he started making comments hinting at the fact that he wants to be with me again and he's trying to get off work to come to the hospital with me in a few days when I get induced (not his baby btw) all this stuff being so sweet but now today he's back to being short and simple when it comes to saying anything. Im so irritated! I love him and he knows this and all he is doing is smurfing with my head! Ugh.... I wish he would make up his mind cuz I can't take this smurf!

Sounds like you need to drop him, and focus on yourself, and your baby.

Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" Sounds like you need to drop him, and focus on yourself, and your baby."

  

Why even bother with him? I would drop him and move on, that sounds immature and annoying.

Lame. Grow up and focus on your baby, since you're clearly about to be a single mother. He probably just wants booty. There's a reason you broke up, you don't need a "man" who is half-smurf, half-sweetie... raise your standards and have some respect for yourself.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Mud:</b>" Lame. Grow up and focus on your baby, since you're clearly about to be a single mother. He probably just ... [snip!] ... broke up, you don't need a "man" who is half-smurf, half-sweetie... raise your standards and have some respect for yourself."</blockquote>



I've been a single mother for a few years now. And it's not booty he's after... he didn't want it when we were together (literally 2 times in The several months we were together ) I think he just can't make up his mind. Its frustrating. I didn't post this to be bashed but just to vent.

Quoting Brandi Coyle Wallace:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Mud:</b>" Lame. Grow up and focus on your baby, since you're ... [snip!] ... we were together ) I think he just can't make up his mind. Its frustrating. I didn't post this to be bashed but just to vent."

Well hun, I'm sorry your going through this, but I stand by what I said. You have a baby, and your about to have another. You dont need someone who cant make a commitment to you and your children. I just think you deserve better. Good luck, and I hope things get better for you.
eta: I know the comment above wasnt directed towards me lol....