I can't handle this.

My SO and I were just sitting here watching tv and out of smurfing no where he was like "are you going to make me dinner you lazy ass" I about punched him in the smurfing face. I hate him so god damn much. I decided to go take a shower to calm down...I can hear him throwing a little baby tantrum in the living room.....(his brother was over when he said that so i'm sure his brother said something to him..because i saw him shake his head at the comment) when i get out of the shower he destroyed the kitchen, took my cell phone and left. I was going to wait until i got my tax return to leave him...but i've decided with my next pay check i am going to check into a hotel until i get my tax return...there is no way i can live another minute with that negative person.




why smurfing me?!
how did I end up with someone like him......i've always been such a nice, positive person..........now I just find myself wanting to sleep and drink and dreaming of another life.

Give him a 30 day notice and kick his ass out

what a prick! Good luck to you, hotel is better then having to be around that.

Quoting ♥three babies ♥:" Give him a 30 day notice and kick his ass out"

  Unless the house is just in your name then kick him out immediately.

Quoting Raindancer:"   Unless the house is just in your name then kick him out immediately."

we rent an apartment and it is in both of our names and I can't afford this place on my own. I would need a place 100-200 dollars cheaper.

I'm sorry mama <3

Quoting Crazyhazel89:" we rent an apartment and it is in both of our names and I can't afford this place on my own. I would need a place 100-200 dollars cheaper."

I'd find another apartment and let him have this place by himself.

Quoting ♥three babies ♥:" I'd find another apartment and let him have this place by himself. "

  I would never deal with that out of DH.

It happens to the best of us=(
Thank God you have the strength to leave....

Quoting Lauralie89:" what a prick! Good luck to you, hotel is better then having to be around that."

He's insane. I'm glad you have the strength to know you do not have to deal with his crap.
No friends/family you could stay with?

Quoting ♥three babies ♥:" I'd find another apartment and let him have this place by himself. "

that is what i plan on doing...I just wish I could do it right now! while he was gone. we literally just paid rent today so i have no money.

Quoting Crazyhazel89:" that is what i plan on doing...I just wish I could do it right now! while he was gone. we literally just paid rent today so i have no money."

Do you have any family in the area?

Quoting Sue_Brown:" He's insane. I'm glad you have the strength to know you do not have to deal with his crap. No friends/family you could stay with?"

i know...i asked him if he was trying to be single forever because that is what he is trying to do...

i feel bad for any girl that gets with him after me.

Quoting ♥three babies ♥:" Do you have any family in the area?

my family lives about an hour away. there is no way im going to move in with them and commute an hour to work and back. id rather live in a hotel.

I hope it gets less stressful/crazy soon for you