re: I can't handle this.

Noone should put up with that. I'm not trying to be rude or nosy, but if he's so horrible, why are you with him? I would punch my husband square in the nose if he said something like that to me.

Quoting *~AngelEyes~*:" Noone should put up with that. I'm not trying to be rude or nosy, but if he's so horrible, why are you with him? I would punch my husband square in the nose if he said something like that to me. "

i literally can't afford to move out. not until i get my tax return. then ill have enough for 1st months rent and security deposit.

I'm sorry mama.
It sounds like everything will get better when you leave though.
Keep your chin up <3

Quoting Crazyhazel89:" i literally can't afford to move out. not until i get my tax return. then ill have enough for 1st months rent and security deposit."

Please, get away from it as soon as you can. Hope it gets better, sweetie. 'Hugs-

thanks guys.

it just baffles me how quickly his mood changes....and like out of no where.

Quoting Crazyhazel89:" thanks guys. it just baffles me how quickly his mood changes....and like out of no where."

Has he been tested for manic depression? Just curious.

Quoting *~AngelEyes~*:" Has he been tested for manic depression? Just curious."

i dont think so...i wouldn't put it past him that he is. i can just see it in his eyes....like he will be silent and his eyes will look so mean/fierce and he won't talk to me (even though i didn't do anything...like i will have just woken up or something but he'll act like he acts me)

he thinks EVERYTHING is unfair and that nothing goes his way...the littlest things piss him off...if he can't find something right then when he wants it he throws a big tantrum...throws things and yells and hits things until he finds it.

i hate him. really.

he would never see a counselor or anything..

Quoting Crazyhazel89:" i dont think so...i wouldn't put it past him that he is. i can just see it in his eyes....like he will ... [snip!] ... things and yells and hits things until he finds it. i hate him. really. he would never see a counselor or anything.."

He needs to see one. Bad. I hope he gets the help he needs bc he acts like my cousin does... my cousin, though will randomly start yelling at cussing at his daughter. Which I've chewed him out for bc she will be trying to get up to go to the bathroom and he's yelling at her to sit down
He, like your SO refuses to see a counsellor. I hope everything gets better!!

Quoting *~AngelEyes~*:" He needs to see one. Bad. I hope he gets the help he needs bc he acts like my cousin does... my cousin, ... [snip!] ... the bathroom and he's yelling at her to sit down He, like your SO refuses to see a counsellor. I hope everything gets better!!"

i really hope he never treats our daughter badly.

Quoting Crazyhazel89:" i really hope he never treats our daughter badly."

I hope not either...

good for you for leaving while you can. some of us stay b/c its too scary to leave

Quoting one of each 4 me:" good for you for leaving while you can. some of us stay b/c its too scary to leave"

the thought is kind of scary....but i know that i'll be happier living alone (well just me and my daughter)

i'm just worried about being able to afford everything.