Quoting *Mary Moon*:" I would probably be touched. My greatest hope is that no matter what happens between him and I, DS comes ... [snip!] ... That would still mean the world to me. If he were like tell my mother I love her...well, bitch and I gotta have some words "
Really? I love my kids & if the house was on fire I want Dh to go for them first...but I can't say my love for them outshines
Dh. It is certainly more unconditional than my love for Dh - since my kids can't really cheat on me or the like,. but I don't love them more than
IDK - Dh & I were together for 14 yrs before we had kids though....and we'll be together after they have kids of their own - so I figure he is still right up there. I also don't think of love in terms of who I love most - as I also love my mom & siblings & all that too....Heck, I can't even tell you I love my kids more than my nieces & nephews, honestly. I am very close to a number of them, as in they've lived with me. There is certainly a huge sense of responsibility toward my kids that differs from the way I feel toward others, but it has never felt to me like "I love them more than"....
I guess I am rambling. It's just interesting. I don't normally think about it much.
IDC what Dh says last or to whom as long as it isn't awful - or like to his mistress I never knew about. LOL He has had plenty of time to tell me everything & then some by now. I think I've already heard it all...twice.