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I would be extremely upset in most scenarios. If he had Alzheimer's I wouldn't be upset though because maybe he forgot about me by that point.

I would just be very sad over the fact i didn't spend his last moment's with him.

Lmao! I would have the same reaction as you! Like, um hello? I took care of your ass for how long and you don't mention me? Especially not the at least second or third behind our kids! Lol

I would probably be touched. My greatest hope is that no matter what happens between him and I, DS comes first. I have told him I have never loved anyone in the world as much as DS and he feels the same. We love each other to the moon and back but our love for our son outshines our love for each other. So if he only said he loved DS, then at least I know his dying wish was that his son knew how much he loved him. That would still mean the world to me. If he were like tell my mother I love her...well, bitch and I gotta have some words  

When my ex fiance passed, he was talking about his daughter, it didn't bother me...
I was mad he died   I could careless what he was talking about...

The 1st thing I do when I get to heaven, is hug him, and punch him in his throat.  

Quoting κατι:" I would just be very sad over the fact i didn't spend his last moment's with him."

        

I would be more pissed if he took the last of his energy to say something to me and not the kids honestly.

Quoting *Mary Moon*:" I would probably be touched. My greatest hope is that no matter what happens between him and I, DS comes ... [snip!] ... That would still mean the world to me. If he were like tell my mother I love her...well, bitch and I gotta have some words  "

Really? I love my kids & if the house was on fire I want Dh to go for them first...but I can't say my love for them outshines Dh. It is certainly more unconditional than my love for Dh - since my kids can't really cheat on me or the like,. but I don't love them more than him.

IDK - Dh & I were together for 14 yrs before we had kids though....and we'll be together after they have kids of their own - so I figure he is still right up there. I also don't think of love in terms of who I love most - as I also love my mom & siblings & all that too....Heck, I can't even tell you I love my kids more than my nieces & nephews, honestly. I am very close to a number of them, as in they've lived with me. There is certainly a huge sense of responsibility toward my kids that differs from the way I feel toward others, but it has never felt to me like "I love them more than"....

I guess I am rambling. It's just interesting. I don't normally think about it much.

IDC what Dh says last or to whom as long as it isn't awful - or like to his mistress I never knew about. LOL He has had plenty of time to tell me everything & then some by now. I think I've already heard it all...twice.

LOL. I'd obviously bring him back to life so I could kill him myself. Right? Only logical reaction.  

Quoting sassy chef:" LOL. I'd obviously bring him back to life so I could kill him myself. Right? Only logical reaction.  "

Exactly. If he mentions the kids first, awesome. He's amazing. But he needs to muster up some strength to throw a shout out my way too!