Did you separate or divorce a crazy person? ( Boderline Pers

My husband has gone lost his mind. He has been accusing me for the past 6 months of cheating on him. It NEVER happend. I got a GREAT job this summer but he couldnt handle me looking & dressing nice and being around a bunch of professionals. He made my life a living hell that I ended up looseing my job. He did everything in his power to make me come clean of cheating including; integragating me for hours to get it outof me, talking about the issue in front of a lawyer, secretly taping me, and even breaking all passwords and going through all my computer activites. Nothing was found, just a stupid confession on Baby gaga that I had a freakin crush on a doctor. He has never let me forget it and He has made my whole life fall apart and now he lost his job of 12 years. Of course, he BLAMES ME. He has gone lost his mind!!! I think this is a boderline personality male. Anyone ever go through this?

I would leave.

That doesn't sound like BPD, that just sounds like psycho.

Quoting bbbt:" That doesn't sound like BPD, that just sounds like psycho. "

yeah, thats the code word I use to my mom when he has lost it during his episodes. We are divorcing actually.

Quoting bbbt:" That doesn't sound like BPD, that just sounds like psycho. "

Or guilt....


I would have left a long time ago.

Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" I would leave."

Officially separating this weekend and we are divorcing, its official.

Quoting Ciara♥:" Or guilt.... I would have left a long time ago. "

yeah. It has been the worst months of my life. the worst. But officially separating.

That's not BPD ... BPD is self destructive behaviours, generally you're to wrapped up in yourself you don't care about what people are doing around you. I should know I have Borderline Personality Disorder, and no I don't consider myself crazy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" That doesn't sound like BPD, that just sounds like psycho. "</blockquote>



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He sounds paranoid.

Quoting Destiel:" That's not BPD ... BPD is self destructive behaviours, generally you're to wrapped up in yourself you ... [snip!] ... what people are doing around you. I should know I have Borderline Personality Disorder, and no I don't consider myself crazy."

My apologies. That was very ignorant for me to talk loosely like that. Whatever my husband has been thinking has drove him crazy. He keeps accusing me of something I never did. He became obsessed with trying to find out why I was cheaing on him. Its been very painful and now he has lost his job. Just confusing

<blockquote><b>Quoting GiggleBellies:</b>" Officially separating this weekend and we are divorcing, its official."</blockquote>




I'm glad your are trying to better your life  

Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting GiggleBellies:</b>" Officially separating this weekend and ... [snip!] ... this weekend and we are divorcing, its official."</blockquote> I'm glad your are trying to better your life  "

Thanks. Its been a very difficult and painful ride. I hope there is light at the end of the tunnel, because we have gone to hell and back.

<blockquote><b>Quoting GiggleBellies:</b>" Thanks. Its been a very difficult and painful ride. I hope there is light at the end of the tunnel, because we have gone to hell and back."</blockquote>




There is always light at the end. You just need to take the time to heal and then you will find it.

He just sounds like a controlling smurf.

my sister has borderline personality disorder and so does a friend of mine. that is not a behavior like that...

Quoting Daniee:" He just sounds like a controlling smurf. my sister has borderline personality disorder and so does a friend of mine. that is not a behavior like that..."

Ok. thanks for the clarification. I tried finding a word for this thing he has. Because he was also verbally abusive, but yes, controlling smurf is the obvious, I just needed a medical term hehe.