re: HEART BROKEN

Quoting Raindancer:" I understand. I am sorry. I have really honestly had a really smurfing emotional day and I have a bad ... [snip!] ... and I have a bad tendency on taking that out on other people.. Like really bad. DH isn't in ear shot so I can't yell at him."

Quoting cunning cuniculi:"   they have limits like that? what the hell? Rick is the same way, i would love to make that difference in a childs life, and our family. maybe someday if he ever changes his mind. "

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Yeah, you can't have a BMI passed a certain point. You also must make like $20,000 or $12,000 a year ... [snip!] ... have been married a minimum of 10 years to the current spouse. It's intense. I hope my husband changes his mind someday too."

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Thank you for apologizing. But I think you should to her not me  "

Quoting MyAdoption:" I was told by an adoptive parent at the school I work at that China has a "pretty enough" test. They deliberate if you are an attractive and healthy looking couple/person. Thats sad!"

Quoting cunning cuniculi:" holy crapppp thats nuts. BMI is bullsmurf too. i mean like...im tiny so i guess for me its no biggie ... [snip!] ... i must have heard wrong. what about gay couples, do you know? is that honored or does it matter what state or whatever?"

Quoting Raindancer:" Totally thought I quoted her. I really am sorry MyAdoption. I can bang my head on my desk.. It will make me feel better anyways."

Quoting cunning cuniculi:" holy crapppp thats nuts. BMI is bullsmurf too. i mean like...im tiny so i guess for me its no biggie ... [snip!] ... i must have heard wrong. what about gay couples, do you know? is that honored or does it matter what state or whatever?"

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I know they can, but don't know the specifics. This is me 2 months after having my son. And about the ... [snip!] ... like I get sick and lose it then back up, but hover around the same. And I'm considered just under morbidly obese by BMI "

Quoting I love Kenzi:" you are tiny compared to me haha"

Quoting Raindancer:"    Me too. I do not dare post pics of me now on anywhere. Not until I get this weight off."

Quoting Raindancer:" I am pointing out facts. A lot of people going through the adoption process learn not to get your hopes ... [snip!] ... wants a perfect child and it irks me. I see you people bitching about it all the time so don't even try to start that smurf."

Quoting MyAdoption:" We have looked into agencies but the sign on cost ranges from 7 - 17000.00 just for advertising. A lot ... [snip!] ... we are residents of the state. They offer this to residents to encourage adoption, especially to older children verses infants."

Quoting MyAdoption:" Yes, you are correct! I reponded to my social worker earlier this evening and said I was sad but happy ... [snip!] ... I was sad but happy for him. There were 4 children who were removed from the adoption list so today was a good day for them!"

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I weigh about 16lbs more than that photo now."