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posted 1st Feb
Quoting Jenna + 2 Beauties:" When Chloe treats me like this and SOs mom doesnt say anything, i feel like she is liking the fact that ... [snip!] ... If she is rude to me when the rest of the family is around, she will tell her to be nice. But if its just us, she stays quiet. "

I would call her ass out. There is no way I'd allow this to keep happening. I would tell her nana that she needs to be an adult and not teach her own grandchild to disrespect her mother and if she feels the need to keep secrets between her and a child then maybe her and the child need to spend less time together. She has no right to keep things from you concerning your own child. I would be so friggin pissed. As far as your daughter... one thing needs to be made clear. YOU ARE HER MOTHER AND SHE IS TO RESPECT YOU NO MATTER WHOSE COMPANY YOU ARE IN. Put an end to this now or you will regret it later.
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I have 3 kids & live in Chicago, Illinois
posted 1st Feb
Quoting Thisperyears:" Maybe have a talk with nana? I'd be pissed if someone was influencing my daughter like that."

i cant. no matter what i try to say to her, she turns it on me.
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I live in California
posted 1st Feb
Maybe you could tell your daughter that she cant visit her nana unless she is going to be respectful. Than take her over there and if she does it again at all you just pack her up and leave. It will suck at the time and you may look like that bad guy but if she experiences the consequences and loves her nana she will stop being rude so she can see her.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in La Verne, California
posted 1st Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting They call me mama.:</b>" Maybe you could tell your daughter that she cant visit her nana unless she is going to be respectful. ... [snip!] ... look like that bad guy but if she experiences the consequences and loves her nana she will stop being rude so she can see her."</blockquote>




This sounds like a very good plan.


But I still believe you SO needs to man up and stick up for you and your child.
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I'm TTC since May '13, have 1 child & live in Kentucky
posted 1st Feb
Quoting Brendan&Bethany'sMom:" I would call her ass out. There is no way I'd allow this to keep happening. I would tell her nana that ... [snip!] ... HER MOTHER AND SHE IS TO RESPECT YOU NO MATTER WHOSE COMPANY YOU ARE IN. Put an end to this now or you will regret it later. "

i agree. i am trying to figure all this out.
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I live in California
posted 1st Feb
Quoting Brendan&Bethany'sMom:" I would call her ass out. There is no way I'd allow this to keep happening. I would tell her nana that ... [snip!] ... HER MOTHER AND SHE IS TO RESPECT YOU NO MATTER WHOSE COMPANY YOU ARE IN. Put an end to this now or you will regret it later. "
 
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posted 1st Feb
Quoting They call me mama.:" Maybe you could tell your daughter that she cant visit her nana unless she is going to be respectful. ... [snip!] ... look like that bad guy but if she experiences the consequences and loves her nana she will stop being rude so she can see her."

this is what i want to do. im honestly just terrified that she will tell them and they will hate me even more.
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I live in California
posted 1st Feb
Quoting Jenna + 2 Beauties:" i cant. no matter what i try to say to her, she turns it on me."


At this point I wouldn't even be worried about causing drama at this point, I'd be telling nana to grow up and stop encouraging her granddaughter to treat her own mother like this or she wouldn't be seeing her anymore. Smurf that noise.
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & live in Portland, Maine
posted 1st Feb
we are suppose to go over there on Superbowl sunday and i really dont want to go. i dont want to deal with this anymore. But of course they will be pissed if i dont go and bring my kids. Im just in fear of this happening again. even though i have talked with her i feel like i cant trust her when she is around them. She doesnt care about my feelings when we are there, but once we get home she is saying she is sorry she will be nice.
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I live in California
posted 1st Feb
Quoting Jenna + 2 Beauties:" we are suppose to go over there on Superbowl sunday and i really dont want to go. i dont want to deal ... [snip!] ... them. She doesnt care about my feelings when we are there, but once we get home she is saying she is sorry she will be nice. "


If she starts acting up take her into another room and tell her if she keeps that behavior up then you guys will go home and have a long talk about this. If she can't treat you with respect then she doesn't get to have fun with your SO's family. Speaking of your SO, he needs to man up and stand up for you.
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I have 1 child & live in Portland, Maine
posted 1st Feb
Quoting Thisperyears:" If she starts acting up take her into another room and tell her if she keeps that behavior up then ... [snip!] ... respect then she doesn't get to have fun with your SO's family. Speaking of your SO, he needs to man up and stand up for you."

i agree!

and thank you for the advice. if i even go, this is what ill be doing.
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I live in California
posted 2nd Feb
So from what i read in comments, i got the jist. My MIL has told my 4yr old that I am mean to her sister and that she is the nice one. This has to do with changing the butt of ainsley 2, who cries whenever i change her butt because she wants to run around.

MY SO will not talk to her about it and it pisses me off. So i've just stopped calling her. I don't make inititave to have her come over or we go over there because i didn't want to deal with the bullsmurf. She talks smurf about me to everyone on her side and DHs dads side. She is just a bitch.

im sorry you going through this!!
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Texas City, Texas
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