Quoting Miss Brittany:" Go to a sex shop. They have lots of fun stuff. Edible body paint is fun. Bullets. Dildos. Massage oils. Handcuffs. Blindfolds. Porn movies."
Quoting TTCAirForcewifey:" I have everything you just said D: I also have a sex candle! "
Quoting 3LittleMonkeys:" you guys need some hardcore spicing...like, bdsm or something? LOL"Oh yeah! Ball gags and leather! Whips and chains!
Quoting Yellow Diamond:" I thought I read in the OP that he wants to change up your schedule. If thats the case, my first bit ... [snip!] ... "oh you will pay for that later" and give him a cheeky smile and wink... LOL I love sex and sexiness, I have so many ideas "ooooh, this is good! I agree with getting of a schedule. Just randomly doing it whenever is so hot!
Quoting Yellow Diamond:" I thought I read in the OP that he wants to change up your schedule. If thats the case, my first bit ... [snip!] ... "oh you will pay for that later" and give him a cheeky smile and wink... LOL I love sex and sexiness, I have so many ideas "
Quoting Miss Brittany:" Oh yeah! Ball gags and leather! Whips and chains!"
Quoting TTCAirForcewifey:" OHHHH i got me a whip i've used it on him once and he HATED it.. lol! I try to get him to spank me or even pull my hair.. but he won't do it anymore."
Quoting Yellow Diamond:" LOL he sounds like the boring one! Doesnt like anal, doesnt like being whipped, wont pull your hair or spank you. Man needs to losen up Does he know what he likes?"I just asked him what he likes and what stuff he likes me to do.. His reply "I don't know" -_-
Quoting emJ':" We sound like the same person!!! My hsband wont even talk sex with me... last night was the first time ... [snip!] ... haven't gotten an answer. I swear the ONLY reason we had sex last night was because I stood there naked and said... NOW. lol "Well i'm always the one trying to have sex with him! he used to be crazy about me... wanted me ALLLLL the damn time, got aroused when he saw me (probably because we were long distance for a bit cause of the military) but now.. Its so hard to get him off of a video game. He said he hasn't been happy with me for about a month because i always nag about him not trying, he doesn't even spend that much time with me... we havent even been on a date in god knows how long, and he expects me to do EVERYTHING. Well yesterday we sat down and talked for like 5 hours about the things that are bothering me and him.. He finally got it through his head that its not me, its him. He tried to end our marriage over it. He kept changing crap, at first he said he isn't happy because we fight and i say mean things, then he said its just how he is, then he said its financial (We aren't struggling WHATSOEVER), then he said he just wanted me to be happy.. and that he is unmotivated to try to make me happy.. WTF is wrong with men.. I'm pretty hurt by the things he said, I cried all day yesterday. He told me he was going to change... So I hope he does because I love him..
Quoting Daniee:" Choking gets me turned on and my SO not choking like oh smurf im going to die. but while having sex he ... [snip!] ... going to help with a sex life, a good one is spontaneous. Hard with having kids. Which I know because my sex life sucks now lol"I have tried.. He said he feels uncomfortable with that.