Advice..

My DD is 3.5, she's been potty trained for over a year.

I had another baby almost 2 months ago. All was well until 3 days ago. For the last 3 days she's been peeing in her pants every single time she has to pee. She does it in the same spot, every single time too, right in front of the toilet. At first I thought maybe she just wasn't making it to the toilet in time, which would be completely fine, but, it's becoming increasingly obvious that she's doing this on purpose.

What would you do? I've told her every time that it's not okay, and she apologizes for it but continues to do it.

She's probably going through a regression cause of the baby. I think you're supposed to not make a big deal about it cause it can cause her to regress more. Just remind her to go in the potty. But don't get mad or frustrated to cause her anxiety.

Quoting lolajessup:" She's probably going through a regression cause of the baby. I think you're supposed to not make a big ... [snip!] ... it can cause her to regress more. Just remind her to go in the potty. But don't get mad or frustrated to cause her anxiety."

I've been pretty calm about it while trying to let her know that it's not okay. I'll continue what I'm doing, thanks!

<blockquote><b>Quoting B♥Z:</b>" I've been pretty calm about it while trying to let her know that it's not okay. I'll continue what I'm doing, thanks!"</blockquote>


Yeah I dont think there's much else u can do. Just make sure she's involved with te baby and gets special mommy time with you without the baby so she doesn't feel like she needs negative attention.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting B♥Z:</b>" I've been pretty calm about it while trying ... [snip!] ... with te baby and gets special mommy time with you without the baby so she doesn't feel like she needs negative attention."

I'm trying to give her as much one on one time with me as I can. DS has reflux really bad so he's up crying a lot. The last week or so she's been saying "Mason you're okay, stop crying" and going into another room, which I feel bad about too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting B♥Z:</b>" I'm trying to give her as much one on one time with me as I can. DS has reflux really bad so he's up ... [snip!] ... The last week or so she's been saying "Mason you're okay, stop crying" and going into another room, which I feel bad about too."</blockquote>

  Awwe. Maybe that's the problem? Try to explain it to her why he's crying and what helps him. Talk about things that hurt her and what makes her feel better to kind of show her why he needs attention and affection for it.

You may have to put her in pull-ups again. At least until she's over this stag. Just show her love and support.

Sounds like she is regressing because of the addition to the family. I wouldn't make to big a deal out of it. It's just a phase that some kids go through.

Id go with no bottoms/ underwear. And make a big deal when she starts using the toilet again...expressing how proud you are.