Quoting Jennifer Bolen:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Dandelion Rapist:</b>" Slightly harsh pretty mama, but ... [snip!] ... asked him if it freaks him out he says no, but honestly I know somewhere in there it probably does bother him on some level."
It might not freak him out. He might just not have a desire to because it feels weird to him. Or he might even feel guilty.
When I was pregnant with my now 4 year old daughter, I was always horny. I couldn't get enough sex. Poor Aaron's balls were in pain because of how much I was having him put out.
Anyways, he went to the store and bought me a vibrator after a while. (He couldn't take it anymore.. He was literally out of commission).
I told him (Jokingly) I couldn't use it because studies show it can cause the baby to develop a stutter.
Of course he didn't believe it, but we had a good laugh about it.