Would this irritate/bother you?
posted 1st Feb
My best friend since we were in elementary school just became a dog owner a few months ago. She's had numerous abortions as a form of birth control (whatever it's her choice to do so) and when I told her I was expecting she cut me out of her life for reasons still unknown. We reconnected about a year ago and been getting along great! She sees how hard it is for me to juggle school, a busy three year old and to get stuff done all on my own. Yesterday she posted a picture of her dog on my fb wall and it had this on it "any women can be a mother, but it takes someone special and strong to raise a pit bull"
I didn't even comment on it because I was extremely offended. It's hard work and she's right any women can reproduce BUT it take someone special to be a good mother, a great role model for the kid(s) and it doesn't come without its sacrifices. I gave up my partying days so my son gets to have the childhood he deserves.
Would that comment bother you?
quoteposted 1st Feb
Uh, yeah. That certainly would.
quoteposted 1st Feb
Yes I would and I would have stricken right back with something like anyone can have a dog but it takes a special kind of stupid to not use BC and wonder why they end up prego.
quoteI'm TTC since August '12, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in
Texasposted 1st Feb
it would annoy me, but i probably wouldn't comment on it.
quoteposted 1st Feb
why would she even do that?
quoteposted 1st Feb
Well, having both.. I think she's an idiot. I wouldn't be bothered. I'd be a little confused, though.
quoteposted 1st Feb
idk if I'd be offended but I'd think she was a weirdo for posting that on my wall out of no where.
quoteposted 1st Feb
Oh wow. I'm speechless. There is no freaking comparison! None! -_- I'm sorry OP
quoteposted 1st Feb
I have a 10year old Pitbull and a 5 year old kid, seriously, the kid is a lot tougher than my dog. I think she was a jerk for posting it, but I wouldn't comment on it, I'd simply delete it from my timeline and ignore it
quoteposted 1st Feb
I'd be pissed off.
quoteposted 1st Feb
That is one of the dumbest things I've heard lol. How does it take someone special to raise a dog but not a child?
quoteI have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in
Illinoisposted 1st Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:</b>" why would she even do that?"</blockquote>
I have no flipping clue.. It was so left field and I didn't want to ask.
quoteposted 1st Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Mandy and her girls!~:</b>" That is one of the dumbest things I've heard lol. How does it take someone special to raise a dog but not a child?"</blockquote>
Yeah dumb and completely incorrect!
quoteposted 1st Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Raindancer:</b>" Yes I would and I would have stricken right back with something like anyone can have a dog but it takes a special kind of stupid to not use BC and wonder why they end up prego."</blockquote>
LOVE!!! Lol
quoteposted 1st Feb
<blockquote><b>Quoting Mandy and her girls!~:</b>" That is one of the dumbest things I've heard lol. How does it take someone special to raise a dog but not a child?"</blockquote>
Yeah dumb and completely incorrect!
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